We all know that women are different than men, but maybe you all should know that: MEN ARE DIFFERENT FROM WOMEN.
We like sex. A lot. And that is not a bad thing. I am interested in other girls besides my girlfriend, meaning I would cheat on her if I could do it and not get caught. I haven't had the chance yet, but I would take it if it came... and this doesn't mean I don't love her. I love her completely.... so do you know why I would cheat on her?
A: She shut me down on sex. It no longer matters if I am in the mood or not. It is all on her terms. If I am the complete gentleman, or if I am a beer-drinking asshole, it makes no difference as to when I get some. None. And if I push it, if I ask, then I am an asshole. If she gives in to my desires once in a while, then I hear about it later how I forced her in to it. Great, that's all I need to feel like, some rapist. Whenever she says that I just want to scream at her, that me wanting sex more than once every two or three weeks is not demanding at all.
Women just don't get it. If my girl would have sex with me once every few days then I would never in my wildest dreams think about cheating on her. I think lots of guys are like me. As long as we're getting some, we don't care about others as much. Some guy who posted earlier made the best point, that he feels more loving towards his wife if they've had a lot of sex lately. This is true. When I have had a lot of sex with my girl I feel so much more attracted to her emotionally, and I am much more willing to do the little things for her. When the well runs dry, I tend to focus more on her personality nuances that I don't like all that much.
Women today have been taught that sex is a bad thing, and that men are nothing but sexual predators. So they repress all natural notions that sex is a good thing and instead they label men and their sex drives as "bad." And yet, paridoxically, women are obsessed with appearance and with looking "sexy." What is the point of looking sexy if you don't want to have sex?
I know that guys are not perfect, but, honestly, women are just as messed up when it comes to how they see guys and what they believe guys should do. Guess what, I don't want to keep the house clean all of the time, I don't care about the color of the living room, and I really don't care if my sheets all match. BUT, I go along with these things because my girl wants me to. And I don't care, really, because it is important to her. When the well runs dry, though, I tend to watch more tv and to do more "guy" things. If she doesn't give me any ME time, then I'm going to make my own. SO, when it comes to the flip side, girls, you should really consider giving it up a little more. Guaranteed, your man will treat you better than ever, and he will get around to fixing that leaky faucet much much sooner.