So the more anyone posts here the less experience they must have of life? They must mean the majority of posters on Letsrun.
It’s not an absolute correlation, but yeah, if you’ve made ~27k posts here then you’ve no place to lecture others on experiencing life.
Since I've had more experience of life than most posters that doesn't really follow. But for some unconnected reason you think posting is a disqualification for life understanding.
You're almost spot on, and your point definitely applies to some. But I think a lot of people in 'incel' spaces are being disingenuous.
I think, deep down, what's bothering a lot of these boys is simple: ego. They're not in the top 5% and it kills them.
Upbringing:
"But...but...Mommy always said that I was special! The smartest and most handsome boy! She said that the girls would all fight over me! Mommy wouldn't lie to me!"
"Daddy always told me that men were superior to women. That a woman should worship the ground that I walk on. My pastor always preached that women should be subservient and always obey the menfolk. Why has society allowed women to rebel against traditional values?!"
Wrong. You know what group of people have the highest rate of divorce? Lesbians. You want to know what group has the lowest? Gay men.
For whatever reason, women just seem to be really bad at marriage. It seems like they really do only want it for the money and the status and image and rarely if ever actually love the person they're with. It seems kind of psychopathic, honestly.
So Chad is also a woman hater. You really need to come out of the closet.
Not a woman hater. Just commenting on statistics of real life. When women are initiating nearly all divorces, even when married to other women, not sure what other conclusion you can arrive at besides "women do not want long term marriages."
As a guy, and I think most guys feel this way, the idea of marrying someone and being with someone but not actually caring about THEIR wellbeing makes no sense at all, like it's just not how we think. There are cases of pathological men out there like that, but it's nowhere near the norm. Whereas women divorcing men for no justifiable reason and then trying to take as much money from them as possible is almost standard at this point. I want to be clear that there are examples of true love couples out there, good, solid women, etc, but you're really rolling the dice when you get married these days as a man.
Among college-educated couples, the percentage of divorces initiated by wives is a whopping 90 percent.
97% of all Alimony and Spousal Support awards are going to women.
Statistics show that women win child custody rights a staggering 90% of the time.
Is that court decisions granting custody or men agreeing to mother having custody? And what are percentages for each? In my country Court more likely grant father custody after hearing than parties agreeing to father having custody.
So Chad is also a woman hater. You really need to come out of the closet.
Not a woman hater. Just commenting on statistics of real life. When women are initiating nearly all divorces, even when married to other women, not sure what other conclusion you can arrive at besides "women do not want long term marriages."
As a guy, and I think most guys feel this way, the idea of marrying someone and being with someone but not actually caring about THEIR wellbeing makes no sense at all, like it's just not how we think. There are cases of pathological men out there like that, but it's nowhere near the norm. Whereas women divorcing men for no justifiable reason and then trying to take as much money from them as possible is almost standard at this point. I want to be clear that there are examples of true love couples out there, good, solid women, etc, but you're really rolling the dice when you get married these days as a man.
"women are initiating nearly all divorces, even when married to other women,..."
Wow, women really are the problem--they're even the ones initiating divorces in same-sex marriages! Thanks for your genius insights.
Oh, and the rest of this post is crap. Just stupid, stupid crap. Please, tell researchers from all around the world studying domestic abuse how much of a risk to the man domestic partnership is. Better yet, go to your nearest abused women's shelter and tell them. They'll really appreciate your analysis. After that, you should seek therapeutic help: your head is broken.
Not a woman hater. Just commenting on statistics of real life. When women are initiating nearly all divorces, even when married to other women, not sure what other conclusion you can arrive at besides "women do not want long term marriages."
As a guy, and I think most guys feel this way, the idea of marrying someone and being with someone but not actually caring about THEIR wellbeing makes no sense at all, like it's just not how we think. There are cases of pathological men out there like that, but it's nowhere near the norm. Whereas women divorcing men for no justifiable reason and then trying to take as much money from them as possible is almost standard at this point. I want to be clear that there are examples of true love couples out there, good, solid women, etc, but you're really rolling the dice when you get married these days as a man.
"women are initiating nearly all divorces, even when married to other women,..."
Wow, women really are the problem--they're even the ones initiating divorces in same-sex marriages! Thanks for your genius insights.
Oh, and the rest of this post is crap. Just stupid, stupid crap. Please, tell researchers from all around the world studying domestic abuse how much of a risk to the man domestic partnership is. Better yet, go to your nearest abused women's shelter and tell them. They'll really appreciate your analysis. After that, you should seek therapeutic help: your head is broken.
So, the point was that women are initiating divorces at much higher rates than men even when married to other women. The divorce rate for lesbian couples is around 75%, whereas the divorce rate for married gay men is roughly 1/3 of that.
Also, the category of couples with the highest rate of domestic violence is lesbian couples... Obviously when a man hits a woman it has the potential to be more dangerous than when a woman hits a woman, but the statistics pretty clearly show that women are not divorcing men due to things like domestic violence, and there is data on that too. Perhaps you should look up the facts before making blind assertions?
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"women are initiating nearly all divorces, even when married to other women,..."
Wow, women really are the problem--they're even the ones initiating divorces in same-sex marriages! Thanks for your genius insights.
Oh, and the rest of this post is crap. Just stupid, stupid crap. Please, tell researchers from all around the world studying domestic abuse how much of a risk to the man domestic partnership is. Better yet, go to your nearest abused women's shelter and tell them. They'll really appreciate your analysis. After that, you should seek therapeutic help: your head is broken.
So, the point was that women are initiating divorces at much higher rates than men even when married to other women. The divorce rate for lesbian couples is around 75%, whereas the divorce rate for married gay men is roughly 1/3 of that.
Also, the category of couples with the highest rate of domestic violence is lesbian couples... Obviously when a man hits a woman it has the potential to be more dangerous than when a woman hits a woman, but the statistics pretty clearly show that women are not divorcing men due to things like domestic violence, and there is data on that too. Perhaps you should look up the facts before making blind assertions?
I wouldn't go as far as to say that domestic abuse isn't a contributing factor in a significant amount of divorces, it's still a common reason (24%) according to the Forbes article. TKTKTK acting like it's THE reason in their overly inflammatory and argumentative post isn't accurate either. To Real Life Chad's point, divorce has never been safer, easier and more beneficial to women, especially to those who have children and don't work/make less than their spouse, so it's no wonder why women are more likely to initiate divorce. Women are also more naturally prone to negative emotion - they score higher on neuroticism scales, and experience anxiety and depression significantly less than men, even in gender equitable countries - which also explains why they would feel less happy when married (not that they're particularly happy when single either).
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So, the point was that women are initiating divorces at much higher rates than men even when married to other women. The divorce rate for lesbian couples is around 75%, whereas the divorce rate for married gay men is roughly 1/3 of that.
Also, the category of couples with the highest rate of domestic violence is lesbian couples... Obviously when a man hits a woman it has the potential to be more dangerous than when a woman hits a woman, but the statistics pretty clearly show that women are not divorcing men due to things like domestic violence, and there is data on that too. Perhaps you should look up the facts before making blind assertions?
I wouldn't go as far as to say that domestic abuse isn't a contributing factor in a significant amount of divorces, it's still a common reason (24%) according to the Forbes article. TKTKTK acting like it's THE reason in their overly inflammatory and argumentative post isn't accurate either. To Real Life Chad's point, divorce has never been safer, easier and more beneficial to women, especially to those who have children and don't work/make less than their spouse, so it's no wonder why women are more likely to initiate divorce. Women are also more naturally prone to negative emotion - they score higher on neuroticism scales, and experience anxiety and depression significantly less than men, even in gender equitable countries - which also explains why they would feel less happy when married (not that they're particularly happy when single either).
Right. Slight edit: I think you meant women experience anxiety and depression MORE than men. I know what you meant though.
And yes, something that I've heard talked about by several psychologists and relationship gurus now is that women often get bored and depressed in middle age and essentially project those feelings onto their husband and marriage, when in reality, it's just them and just that stage of life more than anything. I've also watched a number of videos online of women saying they regret divorcing their husband... It's worth thinking about and worth knowing about. Man or woman who is considering divorcing your spouse, are you truly unhappy with your spouse/marriage? Or are you just unhappy/bored etc in general? Again, it's a serious question worth thinking about and exploring, probably with a trained professional.
Women want more from marriage and relationships than men and so are prone to dissatisfaction with them. They are always looking to other women that they think have a better time of things, from the outside. And they are listening to those women who leave their men. Divorce is socially contagious. The odds go way up when women know of someone close to them divorcing.
Look around you. Virtually every straight schlump (=middle-aged dude with a paunch) or what have you over 30 has a wife or girlfriend.
Too funny...a lot of those guys are simping. They'll say or do anything including spending big $$$ on a chick just so they don't have ti be single & lonely.
And some are even Beta-orbiters competing with sometimes as many as 3 or 4 other guys for the girl's hand (I spent over 2 year as a beta- orbiter trying to win the hand of good-looking girl. What an idiot I was. 🤣).
Let Matt of "33 Secrets" tell it like it is. Over 270k subs & tens of thousands of views for his vids:
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Look around you. Virtually every straight schlump (=middle-aged dude with a paunch) or what have you over 30 has a wife or girlfriend.
Too funny...a lot of those guys are simping. They'll say or do anything including spending big $ on a chick just so they don't have ti be single & lonely.
And some are even Beta-orbiters competing with sometimes as many as 3 or 4 other guys for the girl's hand (I spent over 2 year as a beta- orbiter trying to win the hand of good-looking girl. What an idiot I was. 🤣).
Oh no!! Having to compete with as many as 3 or 4 other people! How will I EVER get a girlfriend if I only have a 25% chance!??
A lot of Dad bods holding hands with decent looking women in public. Seriously, go out in real public - not singles places, nightclubs, and online dating sites. Women can be more selective these days. Men have to accept a bit more reality about their looks/position in life. Everyone should select mates accordingly. If you are a short skinny runner dude with a middle class job, do you really think that you are going to pull top 5% women? If you believe that you can, then you are just as delusional as an obese woman that thinks Timothee Chalamet will want her because she has a fun loving personality.
I also subscribe to the theory that nature dictates that the best looking and most successful people hook up because that is how the species evolves better. This happens in the animal world - bigger, stronger, faster, smarter, and more fertile specimens breed. The weak don't get a chance to pass along inferior genes.
Gonna push back on your evolutionary argument...the number of kids matters as much or more than the probability of mating, and attractive people have no more kids (probably less) than unattractive. Does the hottest person you know have hot grandparents? Probably not. Related: Effective population size determines the strength of selection and complex organisms are under quite weak selection...drift is as much a force as selection for some attributes.
Look around you. Virtually every straight schlump (=middle-aged dude with a paunch) or what have you over 30 has a wife or girlfriend.
Too funny...a lot of those guys are simping. They'll say or do anything including spending big $ on a chick just so they don't have ti be single & lonely.
And some are even Beta-orbiters competing with sometimes as many as 3 or 4 other guys for the girl's hand (I spent over 2 year as a beta- orbiter trying to win the hand of good-looking girl. What an idiot I was. 🤣).
Let Matt of "33 Secrets" tell it like it is. Over 270k subs & tens of thousands of views for his vids:
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