Yes, we mostly have common ground. My "Nope" was in response that you said my advice there was for people who had already reached financial independence. Where we differ is that it is more than ok to have extra cash lying around. If you are already doing 15% or more into retirement accounts, you do not NEED to do more. I actually do more, and I have no problem with people doing more, but you don't HAVE to. You don't HAVE to be investing every last extra penny. Now, if you want to retire by age 40 with $4 million dollars, you might have to, but that's not for everyone.
To emphasize the common ground...yes, long term is the goal. I agree.