dullard wrote:
Stoppit Smith II wrote:
Yes. It's going to come down to whether or not you love yourself more or your wife more.
Everything says move because it's not much different overall.
But would you rather you succeed despite her?
Or would you rather she succeed because of you.
You can be right or a good husband.
You could say the exact same thing in reverse to the wife.
Well, one difference is he can still succeed by working remotely and she already has the bigger promotion lined up.
Can they each get what they want in both locations?
In city
Her: No
Him: Probably/Most Likely
In country:
Her: Yes
Him:Probably
To me the best pairing of risk/reward is in the country. what's the risk.....he might get laid off? Seems like a kind of cowardly thing to deny your wife a big promotion for. The country is the only option for both them to get most of what they want. As a family decision, it's a no-brainer. As a personal decision, depends on how you feel about your wife.