RunRagged wrote:
Well..... wrote:
What a weird thread. People who are trans don't "change" their gender. Their gender is what it is. Just like being gay or whatever, you don't change from being straight to gay.
Or did everyone here pretty much decide to be the gender they are ? What a weird concept.
All trans people are doing is outwardly identifying as their correct gender, and for some making their body align with it.
The notion that gender and gender identity are fixed and immutable is outdated - and many now consider it blatantly transphobic. Fact is, lots of people change their gender/gender identity multiple times over the course of their lives.
Moreover, many people nowadays change their gender/gender identity from day to day depending on what suits them; the term for this is "gender fluid." Dictionary dot com defines gender fluid as "noting or relating to a person whose gender identity or gender expression is not fixed and shifts over time or changes depending on the situation."
Merriam-Webster:
https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/gender-fluidActor and comic Eddie Izzard, singer Sam Smith and UK finance executive Pips Bunce are well-known examples of individuals whose gender identities shift from day to day and from one setting to the next. Sometimes these guys feel, "identify as" and "present as" bog standard blokes, other times they get dolled up in what Izzard calls "girl mode." When in "girl mode" Izzard, Bunce and many others like them take it as their right to use women's loos, change rooms, locker rooms, etc - and they condemn any girl or woman who feels uneasy about grown men in such spaces as hateful bigots.
Bunce explains: ‘I like to be Phil one day and Pippa another, using different forms of dress and make-up to do so. I do it at home and at work. I am straight, have been married for more than 20 years and have two children.’
In 2018, Bunce was named one of the "Top 100 Female Executives" in the UK by the Financial Times HERoes Champions of Women in Business awards program. In response, Bunce said: ‘I am truly honoured and humbled by this award and am proud of the progress we are making towards all forms of gender diversity and equality.’
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-6197705/City-workers-hit-gender-fluid-banker-works-days-Philip-Pippa.htmlThough Bunce is heterosexual like Eddie Izzard and most others males who claim to be trans or gender fluid, Bunce nonetheless also won the annual "LGBT+" Inspirational Leader Award" at the 2018 British LGBT awards. Straight people who "identify as" trans, non-binary, gender fluid, "gender queer," and "gender fxck" like Bunce now constitute significant portion of the "LGBTQ+" in Anglophone countries.
Some of the large numbers of heterosexuals using gender identity labels to claim membership in the "LGBTQ+" today are openly homophobic. As a result, many gay men, lesbians and bisexuals who believe that sexual attraction is about biological sex and not gender identity are being told they are no longer welcome in " the LGBTQ+." Some homosexuals are being subjected to homophobic bullying, abuse and smear campaigns from within today's "LGBTQ+ community" and also from gay rights orgs which they helped found.
Mermaids, the controversial UK charity that promotes medical transition of children who are confused about gender and might be grow up to be gay, recently lent its social media platforms to a gender fluid obviously male adult named Derwen Fay to bring attention to how laws and policies requiring picture IDs to vote and for other purposes are oppressive to people whose gender identity changes from one day to the next, or from moment to moment, as Fay's gender identity does. Fay explained that having official ID for only one of Fay's gender identities has caused Fay to suffer "microaggressions" such as what Fay has interpreted as "judging looks" from strangers.
My gender identity moves quite regularly between feeling non-binary, female, and occasionally male, so any form of binary gendered ID will not accurately represent how I identify on that particular day.
Some people change their gender/gender identity from moment to moment. It's because of the growing popularity of embracing a gender fluid "identity" that LGBTQ+ orgs now advise,
People should always ask a person for their pronouns before assuming. There are no fixed set of pronouns for gender-fluid people, as no pronouns are tied to a specific gender.
A gender-fluid person may ask you to switch the pronouns you use for them depending on how they are feeling about their personal gender at a given time.