Certainly understandable, however I suspect such thoughts enable this behavior. To think or suggest he cannot change this delusional mindset will only propagate it, excuse it by proxy, and never allow him to make a real change in his life. He has been given quite a public wakeup call and now is the time to answer it, not hit the snooze button again. He is not the victim, the victim is the person who did not run Boston, the one who may never have that chance again. That unknown person deserves our sympathy.
Actually that video made me genuinely sad. He looks just like any other runner or "also ran". Just your average human being. I really feel bad for him. We can all forget about it in a week or a month and he will have to live with this for the rest of his life.
Make no mistake, he brought it upon himself and he's guilty as charged but on some level watching him finish a 22 minute 5K wearing a Boston shirt before he'd ever been to Hopkinton let alone Boylston Street really brought a sense of reality into this bizarre situation. This is how he is, 24/7, all the time. He probably can't turn it off and can't help it. Maybe he is not that much different than the rest of us, he just went about it the wrong way because that is all he knows.
Again, I don't condone any of his actions, including his open letter, cheating in Lehigh or his obnoxious social media persona, but somehow that video made him look more "real" and more "human" than any of the other stuff people have unearthed about him.