Married Guys: When does the urge to see other women go away

forsh wrote:

degenerate wrote:

This is the correct answer to the question.

No doubt. This is the best reason I can think of for having a 401K.

Are you saying that you borrow on your 401k to pay for brothel fees?

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forsh wrote:

degenerate wrote:

This is the correct answer to the question.

No doubt. This is the best reason I can think of for having a 401K.

forgetting the 401k joke, the problem most men (and women) have is that they fall in love with someone outside the marriage. Then your reasoning gets fouled up and losing your marriage seems a fair trade for...just...that...one...time.

Every relationship is different, but Doug 1778 points out the risks of getting married.

There is no reason for a guy to get married, with the single exception of doing so to support an environment with children.

And the child thing is risky too. You can do all the right things, and have very little appreciation from your offspring. Worse yet, unless your spouse is really mature and dedicated to the co-parenting cause above all else, a disgruntled spouse can be very effective in turning the kids against you. I can't emphasize enough just how skeptical men should be over marriage.

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I'm approaching twenty years of marriage. Have not cheated and don't expect to, but the desire never goes away. I see plenty of men every day that grab my attention because of their looks. wives are looking at men every day too, it would be odd if somebody wasn't looking.

Honestly123 wrote:

Do I still think other women are attractive? Sure, that is normal. Do I want to sleep with them? No way. It just wouldn't be worth it. In my opinion, it would be like trading a life's worth of healthy food for a bacon double cheeseburger. Sure, it would be good for the 20 minutes you're enjoying it, but you just lost something super valuable.

What about cheat days? Everyone splurges on cheat days.

45, married 15 years, you can find Tinder and Bumble on my phone. No meetups, just like to see what is out there. Urge never goes away.

The urge goes away when your wife has grown a front-butt and mycologists discover a new species of fungus in her vagina.

This is the moment you choose to live the rest of your life as a gay man.

Excellent Advice. Staying busy is the solution. If you are alone for a while, better to go out with friends and get into some sporting activities or the least - watch TV. Of course, kids in the house will ensure that :)

This has me wondering: what’s the point for men to get married?

I see only risk and no gain from it.

You can have kids and live together without getting married.

Ummmmmmm wrote:

This has me wondering: what’s the point for men to get married?

I see only risk and no gain from it.

You can have kids and live together without getting married.

Marriage is a trap set by women. To boot, married women statistically cheat more than married men. How disgusting is that!? A woman cheating is far worse because it's always because of an emotional attachment, whereas a cheating man just wants a one time release.

Ummmmmmm wrote:

This has me wondering: what’s the point for men to get married?

I see only risk and no gain from it.

You can have kids and live together without getting married.

This is why I bust inside every woman I have sex with. I don't need a ring and vows for satisfaction and a mini me.

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When you develop man boobs and grow a forest of back hair. Usually around the age of 40 or have children, whichever comes first.

The urge never goes away, and it goes for both men and women. EVERY relationship goes stale after awhile, some faster than others, depending on the chemistry you have with the person.

Speaking from the POV of someone who's stepped outside their marriage (never got caught), new is always exciting, but the emotions and problems that entail is not worth my time. Sex is sex, but I just don't have the energy to deal with all the issues and BS that the new person brings. I'd never elope or leave my family.

OK … WTF. Probably great in the sack, but a bit crazy if you ask me.

I am in your exact position basically. I’m 25 and have been with my girlfriend for 5 years. I have zero problems with my relationship- I’m not bored or unsatisfied or anything. But at the same time I can have crazy strong cravings to pursue other women that I crush on. It’s not even sexual specifically, or that I think they are better than my woman, they are just ‘unknown’. I just have a craving to form a connection with and get to know many different women. I think some of the problem may be I have never really been with anyone else seriously and I sometimes wonder what I am missing. Logically I don’t actually think I am missing anything but that doesn’t satisfy the emotional side of me.

Anyway, you made this post 10 years ago so do you have any sense of an answer now?

Ask Bill Clinton. He gets to see them as much as he likes but he still won't stop.

If you were honest… the reason you’ve had no meetups is because you’ve had no matches.