UPDATE:
Stayed the night in the hotel last night. Most family friends don't know yet, so I still don't have much support aside from LRC and I want to give all of you who have responded my deepest thanks for the kind words. I woke up this to several messages and missed calls from my wife from last night. She had obviously been drinking, but in summary she's pleaded with me to come back, promising to never do it again and that she can make it up to me. She also said she still hasn't been in contact with any lawyers though she said yesterday that she would be. I'm typing this on my lunch break and at this point I still haven't responded, and she hasn't said anything else either. I'm at a loss for what to do, because I already miss her and my kid. Still haven't done anything about the secretary at the office, it seems like the least of my worries right now. Again, thanks for all of the sympathy.
-DD