BS.
All women told me they don't put out on first date.
BS.
All women told me they don't put out on first date.
Ciro wrote:
I've had three very enjoyable relationships that started with sex on a first date (or first time we met).
Don't be a prude, go with it and see what happens.
I bet you have
dfa wrote:
BS.
All women told me they don't put out on first date.
Ha, indeed fella.
Dean98TF wrote:
girls that give it up in 90 minutes will confess a bunch of bigger red flags?
Are you a religious nutcase? Oh, I forgot! You´re an American!
You don’t see the irony?
It's a red flag if your goal is to avoid sex on the first date.
It’s up to you really. Do you want to have a long term relationship with a skank? Some people are not bothered by this and it’s a big deal for others. You decide.
The woman I am with gave it up on the first date. Still together after 27 years and married for 21 of that. Is that a red flag? Should I be worried?
Old Married Master wrote:
The woman I am with gave it up on the first date. Still together after 27 years and married for 21 of that. Is that a red flag? Should I be worried?
Why do you feel you have to ask the question ?
you have to get a first date first
Ironic? wrote:
You don’t see the irony?
Go on, tell me.
Quite self righteous sounding of you. No human being alive today is a Paragon of virtue and morals.
ChadThunderCock wrote:
Quite self righteous sounding of you. No human being alive today is a Paragon of virtue and morals.
So you are saying there are no differences between people?. Everyone is the same?
Nobody is a perfect basketball player but I’m essentially the same as Jordan.
Up to you wrote:
It’s up to you really. Do you want to have a long term relationship with a skank? Some people are not bothered by this and it’s a big deal for others. You decide.
So a male and female skank meet at a bar....
Hey kitty girl wrote:
I never did anything on a first date, MAYBE a kiss, but I always wanted to keep it PG and get to know the person.
The one person I did sleep with on a first date was during an amazing night of conversation and good chemistry. We ended up dating for just shy of 6 years.
So I say it COULD be a red flag, but people are more nuanced than just that.
I'm a man but I agree with this point.
Now, I'm 60 so I've been around a long time and times have changed. But I recently dated a woman who made me wait a couple dates to even kiss.
Most girls I'e known said that if they thought they really liked the guy they'd wait because they didn't want him to think they'd sleep with just anyone.
And before you ask- if they didn't like the guy they did not sleep with him. lol
Maybe if you dated a woman who had morals, you would still be in that relationship today.
In terms of virtue/morals, yes we are all the same, no one has a monopoly on being virtuous or moral. Now maybe someone has no problem with sexual sins but their sins are in different types. However in the eyes of God we are all sinners. I just hate it when someone pops off that just because a guy has sex with a woman on the first date that he's some extreme degenerate. Of course some may very well be, but to blanket generalize every single guy like that is not accurate.
ChadThunderCock wrote:
In terms of virtue/morals, yes we are all the same, no one has a monopoly on being virtuous or moral. Now maybe someone has no problem with sexual sins but their sins are in different types. However in the eyes of God we are all sinners. I just hate it when someone pops off that just because a guy has sex with a woman on the first date that he's some extreme degenerate. Of course some may very well be, but to blanket generalize every single guy like that is not accurate.
So there is no difference, scale, or continuum on human behavior. Completely binary? Mother Theresa is the same as Aldolph Hitler.
Right, who among us has not murdered someone? Everyone is the same.
You are clueless. I hate it when people are clueless.
We're talking in terms of virtues/morals, not murderous criminals like Hitler. No one is righteous, as it is written in the Bible.
And don't get me started on roman cucktholicism bringing up mother theresa, that's a whole other Pandora's box.
Everyone is a sinner and none is righteous, no not one. Not even mother theresa.
ChadThunderCock wrote:
We're talking in terms of virtues/morals, not murderous criminals like Hitler. No one is righteous, as it is written in the Bible.
And don't get me started on roman cucktholicism bringing up mother theresa, that's a whole other Pandora's box.
Everyone is a sinner and none is righteous, no not one. Not even mother theresa.
We are not talking about salvation here. Who said anything about that. This is about relationships and what kind of person you want a relationship with. What kind of morals do they have? There is a broad spectrum of moral behavior in the human population. It’s not binary. Not everyone is the same. Not even close. Why are you confused by this?