What is going on with this girl?

She gave up because she thought you didn't respond to her at the banquet.

I dont speak female wrote:

Alright, so there is a very pretty girl that was on the college cross country team with me over the summer. She is naturally quite outgoing and it seems as if she is very nice to most guys. However, she has done and said some things to me that have been very suspicious (called me cute, says my name a lot, looks at me dozens of times). We started to text a few weeks ago (she initiated) and I thought things were going well. At a CC banquet a week ago, she was touchy for the first time and laughed at everything. I didn’t respond very much, and the next day she stopped texting me altogether. It was just very confusing to me because of what had just happened the day before. What’s goin on? Help

She wanted The D

You not responding told her that you also want The D

You didn't respond to her so she has given up on you. If I was you I would tell her that your shy and that your still interested in her but wasn't sure how to go ahead. Tell her you have Asperger's or something and she will understand you. Tell her that you think she is your soulmate and that you have always wanted her.

It’s not that difficult to understand. She gave up on you.

Sounds like she thought you were cute or interesting and wanted to get to know you more. Once she did, she determined you weren’t the right match for her for whatever reason.

Banana Bread wrote:

Tell her that you think she is your soulmate and that you have always wanted her.

DONT do that or she will think you are a freak and will run!

Hey Kitty Girl wrote:

Banana Bread wrote:

Tell her that you think she is your soulmate and that you have always wanted her.

DONT do that or she will think you are a freak and will run!

If she think that then it is her lose and she is definitely not your soulmate. I always thought this was a good thing to say because it proves that you are looking for a meaningful long term relationship so she doesn't have to worry that you are just after a one night stand.

Banana Bread wrote:

Hey Kitty Girl wrote:

DONT do that or she will think you are a freak and will run!

If she think that then it is her lose and she is definitely not your soulmate. I always thought this was a good thing to say because it proves that you are looking for a meaningful long term relationship so she doesn't have to worry that you are just after a one night stand.

+1

You already screwed this up. Time for drastic action!!!

What's so hard to understand? She gave you signals and you didn't respond back. What is she supposed to think, except that you are not really interested.

Youtube Corey Wayne. Watch his videos, read his book.

She now finds someone else more attractive and funnier than you. Oh, and laughing at someone's jokes is not flirting. Why you feel there's some special connection made with a woman who laughs at something innately funny is beyond comprehension.

I dont speak female wrote:

Alright, so there is a very pretty girl that was on the college cross country team with me over the summer. She is naturally quite outgoing and it seems as if she is very nice to most guys. However, she has done and said some things to me that have been very suspicious (called me cute, says my name a lot, looks at me dozens of times). We started to text a few weeks ago (she initiated) and I thought things were going well. At a CC banquet a week ago, she was touchy for the first time and laughed at everything. I didn’t respond very much, and the next day she stopped texting me altogether. It was just very confusing to me because of what had just happened the day before. What’s goin on? Help

She already has a boyfriend and she feels guilty about flirting with you.

And ignore the advice of banana nut and gravy - even if they aren't actually one wierdo.

all about the d wrote:

She wanted The D

You not responding told her that you also want The D

Following your advice, I tried sending her a picture of it, now I have to meeting with the Dean of Students to discuss. What should I say?

I dont speak female wrote:

all about the d wrote:

She wanted The D

You not responding told her that you also want The D

Following your advice, I tried sending her a picture of it, now I have to meeting with the Dean of Students to discuss. What should I say?

" A pic is worth a thousand words"

Just call her up and ask her out. Just don't come across as needy or desperate. If you try to explain yourself you'll dig a hole you'll never get out of. Even if you're faking it try to project some self confidence. Don't confuse arrogance with self confidence. Nobody likes arrogance.

Banana Bread wrote:

If she think that then it is her lose and she is definitely not your soulmate. I always thought this was a good thing to say because it proves that you are looking for a meaningful long term relationship so she doesn't have to worry that you are just after a one night stand.

I know I'm butting in here but to tell someone you barely know that they are your soulmate is a red flag. That doesn't say you are looking for something meaningful and long term, it says you have poor social skills and are borderline obsessive. I would steer away from someone like that.

2/10 - she wasn't very pretty.

Alright I think I understand what’s going on now. How should I take it from here? We know each other fairly well and see each other a couple times a day. I would like to let her know that I like her

old guy 72 wrote:

Just call her up and ask her out.

LOL! It's 2018 man.

ask her out to a casual cold drink or coffee or whatever she likes and talk to her!