Brooo several years ago I went on a week long bike tour and had a girl give me a massage that totally went inappropriate.
On the second day of this tour i had this big old lady come ask me if i had gotten a massage. I said "nah" and then this lady started telling me how amazing the massage therapists were on this tour and told me to go to the one named Ashley. So i take the bait and go sign up for this girl.
I walk in for my appointment and this girl goes, "So my mom tells me she hooked you up with me." At this point i was like wtf this girl got her mom to come set me up! haha
She kept saying things like "we should be best friends" and was getting super handsy on my inner upper thighs to where she was literally touching my junk. She kept telling me that i should come in later for another free massage. 20 year old me was literally sweating because this was a room that had multiple massage therapists and I could tell that other people were seeing and hearing this girl hit on me while touching me.
I had a girl with me that I did this tour with, and she sat in on this massage. When i got done and stood up her eyebrows were up in surprise. This girl i was with was telling people all week about how i had made a new best friend.
I didn't get another massage all week. Ashley came up one time a day or two later, poked my side and walked right off smiling looking back.
I can see why your wife would not like you getting this massage.