Because you're immature and don't know how to fvck. Next question.
Because you're immature and don't know how to fvck. Next question.
Sorry buddy. I already said- I have very little money and young girls go for me.
I'm not talking about the young floozy who marries the 70 year old geezer.
These are attractive women and I'm your average guy.
Broken Down Ugly Old Stiff wrote:
runn wrote:
LOL- I'm rather poor- I'm a teacher.
I am 5'7 and weight 140lbs.
I'm kind of muscular but not what you would call buff.
I've been told- by MANY people that I am "accessible" and very approachable- easy to talk to.
I'm being very serious- complete strangers say hello to me- randomly.
I have a GF and she gets a kick out of it- no matter where we go.
I once had another woman's husband tell me that "husbands" don't like me.
I have never hit on another man's wife or anything like that, but it's that approachableness I mentioned above.
I smile a lot. I am usually happy and have a very positive outlook.
My friends tell me that I am hopelessly optimistic, always seeing the bright side of any situation (except the Trump administration- that's depressing me). LOL
But- that's it in a nutshell.
Wow!...you must be somekind of a slick dude or something. ?. Usually middle-aged Cougars go for (and can get) guys 10-15 yrs younger than them. Generally speaking, us old bucks (I'm late 50s) need to be loaded & buffed to get the younger hot women. Otherwise, we're pretty much left with the old bags in our age group (I'm above average income but ugly as hell with an old, arthritic body from 35+ yrs of running - old bags for me...if I'm lucky! ?).
So, if you're scoring good with hot ladies younger than you, and you're not rich nor buffed (you're kind of a little fellow...aren't you?), then thumbs up to you! ?
No, I'm not! I'm just saying- be normal. Have confidence but not arrogance. Take care of yourself- stay healthy and in shape.
I go to local 5ks, no one cares how fast or slow I am. We hang out after, talk and they like me.
Well, When I was 49 I dated a 22 yr old for 3 years. We split up cause I found out she was a gaslighting Ho and wanted to hang with her 25 yr old druggie friends and snort coke rather than be with me. I’m dating a 32 yr old now, 20 years my junior and things are great. Both of these gals are hot and it wasn’t all about the money. Some dudes get better looking as they get older and I suppose I’m one of them. Yes I spend a bit of money but my current GF does ok in the money department. And we have a lot in common.
I’m fit, smart and can have an intelligent conversation which is something I had a hard time doing when I was a stupid 30 year old and didn’t know a Bugundy from a Bordeaux. And just cause we get older doesn’t mean we can’t still perform as well as we could when we were younger. I fact experience and patience and staying power make that department better than it was 20 years ago. The GF ain’t complaining except when I want round two.
To answer the OPs question, some chicks just have weird taste in men. I know hot hot babes in their mid 30s who have great careers and money who date out of work losers their same age. They can have any man they want on the planet but they go for the unemployed gamer who hangs out at home all day in poo stained underpants. Go figure.
Guaranteed these dudes are not pasty, or washed up. They may very well be 10 years older, though.
Look.
Being a dude under 25 can be tough dating-wise. Theres not too much of a pool below you age-wise (underage) and older women want nothing to do with you.
That leaves you in competition for older men for the girls in your own age-group, who have a number of distinct advantages over you.
There is a huge maturity gap that does not really even out until your late 20s. A young woman under 25 really is a young woman. A young man under 25 is essentially an overgrown teenager. You probably make little to no money, are exceedingly selfish in your worldview, and although you may have a man's body, you spend most of your time acting out what you "think" a man is supposed to be- doing stupid crap that (well-adjusted) girls find irritating, like being vaguely misogynistic, overly impulsive, manipulative, arrogant, etc. The "swagger" that a 20 year male displays is really just desperate insecurity most of the time.
By your late 20s, you have gained income, life experience, relationship IQ, are better in bed, and are generally just a more interesting and well put together person.
For an attractive, mature college-aged woman, the decision between a 21 year old and a 30 year old might be a no-brainer; a 30 year may be more of a natural companion maturity-wise. Thats just kind of the way it works.
Of course, there are plenty of immature, selfish, dumb overgrown teenagers that are very much in your league. Its just that the ones that seem reallllly cool and beautiful to you are probably just leagues ahead of you and you really don't even pick up on your radar.
Not to worry, your time will come. Date around, sleep around. Get your degree, Travel, learn some valuable skills and a second or third language. Learn about the world. Keep your body fit. The trick is for you not to be bitter or pessimistic in the mean time, because those are qualities that are attractive to absolutely no one.
Cheers.
runn wrote:
Broken Down Ugly Old Stiff wrote:
Wow!...you must be somekind of a slick dude or something. ?. Usually middle-aged Cougars go for (and can get) guys 10-15 yrs younger than them. Generally speaking, us old bucks (I'm late 50s) need to be loaded & buffed to get the younger hot women. Otherwise, we're pretty much left with the old bags in our age group (I'm above average income but ugly as hell with an old, arthritic body from 35+ yrs of running - old bags for me...if I'm lucky! ?).
So, if you're scoring good with hot ladies younger than you, and you're not rich nor buffed (you're kind of a little fellow...aren't you?), then thumbs up to you! ?
No, I'm not! I'm just saying- be normal. Have confidence but not arrogance. Take care of yourself- stay healthy and in shape.
I go to local 5ks, no one cares how fast or slow I am. We hang out after, talk and they like me.
C'mon man...are you talking about scoring with good looking ladies 20+ years younger than you just because you're good looking & charming? Lol. Not in the real world pal.
I'm 57 and I can tell you no matter how good looking or charming you are in your middle-age, the hot younger ladies will only be interested if you're loaded $$$$. I know middle-age rich guys who are average looking, overweight & arrogant but score with some very hot younger ladies (it's the $100,000 sports car that usually does it ?).
Conversely, most of my middle-aged friends are old married stiffs, but the ones that are divorced and not rich are left trying to get dates on those "over-50" online dating services. ?
☝️ If you've got the "dough" you're in the "show" with young ladies.