Okay.... First of all, you said pretty head over heels for a girl that is in a completely different time of her life. She is 22, graduating college, still getting set up and you are 27. You want to avoid dating sites? Okay, then just go out and do sh*7 on the weekends with friends and I'm sure something will fall on your lap. Why would you bottleneck yourself and waste so much energy on one girl, when she could just be a good friend and then lead you to other potential partners? Don't force a relationship, if it was going to happen... You wouldn't even be in the game your in right now. If you want closure, then be straight forward with her, tell her what the deal is as best you can, get the facts, if it doesn't go in your favor... Oh well, there are better things out there. Go run, drink beer, and stop swooning over girls, be established, and it will all work out probably well before you even realize it... Why am I typing this? Go have fun, you're 27, don't worry about love, or relationships, it will all happen if you just go out there and live your life.. Jesus... I'm going to bed. Don't read anymore of these troll posts.