So my GF just told me she is pregnant

Sure. He has the right to suggest it and she has the right to decide to carry to term. None of it is his decision.

Bill I love you so

I always will

I look at you and see

the passion eyes of May

Oh but am I ever gonna see

my wedding day?

Oh I was on your side Bill

when you were losin'

I'd never scheme or lie Bill

There's been no foolin'

but kisses and love won't carry me

till you marry me Bill

Bill I love you so

I always will

and in your voice I hear

a choir of carousels

Oh but am I ever gonna hear

my wedding bells?

I was the one came runnin'

when you were lonely

I haven't lived one day

not loving you only

but kisses and love won't carry me

till you marry me Bill

Bill I love you so

I always will

and though devotion rules my heart

I take no bows

Oh but Bill you know

I wanna take my wedding vows

Come on Bill

Come on Bill

I got the wedding bell blues

Really big deck wrote:

Lol. Accidents happen the guy has the right to suggest abortion and the woman should seriously consider.

Sex is never an accident. How would accidental sex ever happen? Do you mistake the vagina for your hand?

Sbeefyk1 wrote:

Really big deck wrote:

Lol. Accidents happen the guy has the right to suggest abortion and the woman should seriously consider.

Sex is never an accident. How would accidental sex ever happen? Do you mistake the vagina for your hand?

Sometimes you veer into the wrong lane...

on the dirt road wrote:

Sbeefyk1 wrote:

Sex is never an accident. How would accidental sex ever happen? Do you mistake the vagina for your hand?

Sometimes you veer into the wrong lane...

That'd be like mistaking a paved road and a gravel driveway...

Don't ever f..k a girl you aren't willing to have a baby with... If you really like her and want a kid tell her you will move in with her for at least six monthes after the kid is born and if things are going good then you will get married or move out... If things aren't... Make her sing a prenup before you move in with her including money, sex how often etc.

Oldie wrote:

Don't ever f..k a girl you aren't willing to have a baby with... If you really like her and want a kid tell her you will move in with her for at least six monthes after the kid is born and if things are going good then you will get married or move out... If things aren't... Make her sing a prenup before you move in with her including money, sex how often etc.

You must come from a world different from the real world. Most people have sex because it feels really good but not to make babies.

Crazy women hearing their biological clock ticking unilaterally decide to spawn a human without telling the male sperm donor what her plans are. If the kid is squirted out and paternity established then the sperm donor has specific legal obligations that vary from state to state until the demon spawn reaches legal age of maturity or beyond.

It is often best to find a f..k buddy who already has kids. Her maternal instincts are satisfied and the guy can be fairly certain that she is going along for the ride.

Flounder wrote:

You must come from a world different from the real world. Most people have sex because it feels really good but not to make babies.

Why did you say this to him? Seems like you missed the point

Have you verified that she was actually on the pill? You should be able to discretely check her medication to see that she had been taking it up through your little mishap.

If she was on it, that would be evidence against the theory that she's a baby-crazy, biological-clock-ticking nutcase.

Ok so last night was a disaster. I came over to her house just to talk things out. I didn't want to flush this relationship down the toilet until I knew she wasn't going to do anything else crazy to me. Anyway, I confronted her on calling my mom saying she crossed a line. She got super pissed at me telling me that a real man would step up to the plate and told me to stop being immature. She just didn't get that I need time and the more I talked, the angrier she got at me. Anyway, I grabbed my stuff and left saying we should talk when we cool down. I left while she was crying on the floor. She kept saying I'm not allowed to be like her dad who walked out on her!

This is where I messed up. I was so mad I just needed to forget about this for a few hours. I went to a bar and proceeded to get blackout drunk. I do remember leaving the bar with a chick and walking to her apartment but the next clear memory is waking up in her bed. She confirmed my worst nightmare about the night and even worse, SHE WORKS WITH MY GF AT THE SAME COMPANY! I mean this is a small city, but what are the effing odds?!!!? She said she recognized me last night because my gf has a picture of us on her desk. She says she wants to keep this quiet but she wants to see me this weekend which is a huge problem. I wanted to clean up my deal with my gf, but now I don't know how? The worst part is hookup girl is bigger than I like so I would never date her anyways!

I think you had a lot of people going until that last post. You just killed your toll.

Just told the pregnant GF about what I did last night. She is okay with it (not happy) and said she understood this is a stressful situation. For both of us. She asked if I liked her co-worker. I said "no" and that I just had too much to drink. She called me a huge idiot asking if I was trying to get another woman pregnant. What the f**k. I knew this would happen.

Once she settled down a little bit, she agreed it would be awkward for both of them at work, but said the only thing left to do was a threesome with all of us.

0/10

kimani wrote:

on the dirt road wrote:

Sometimes you veer into the wrong lane...

That'd be like mistaking a paved road and a gravel driveway...

A gravel driveway gets packed down and smoothed the more it is used.

If you turn your lights off and close your eyes you would swear you are on a freeway.

you just jumped the shark....

Maybe man up and take care of the child. Marry her would even be better.

The fundamental rule of relationships is you don't have sex with someone you wouldn't marry. That kid is most likely yours whether you want it or not (or did you not understand the whole 20% failure rate with condoms thing). You will be paying to take care of it whether you want to or not. Be a man, and be a good father to your kid.

The behavior of much of the world since the 1960s points to the wisdom of no sex before marriage. Is it merely coincidental that the obesity epidemic has occurred over roughly the same stretch of time?

Ok so this guy is fake. I am the actual original poster.

This is actually what happened. I did take the other poster's advice and we met at a restaurant. I got a hold of her phone when she went to the bathroom and I checked it. She had bumble on her phone so now I know the kid may not be mine. This is the Only time I have ever been relieved to be cheated on. I told her I want a paternity test, paid, and left. thanks to those that told me to be skeptical.