Shocked and stunned wrote:
How can I just walk away now? Besides a kid is at stake. I'm not heartless, this just isn't how I wanted it to go down.
It must be nice to have lived a life where this is the first time something hasn't gone exactly to plan.
The long-term prospects with the GF are not looking good. At all. Not even a little. Look what she's doing all around you.
Reasonable people would never advocate to totally abandon the relationship. You probably have a kid now. You need to lawyer-up and get visitation, support, etc. worked out now. When the kid comes, assuming it's yours, everyone's expectations are clear. The kid's life can be pretty orderly this way. Otherwise, the situation gets worse instead of better.
Maybe it all works out anyway and it turns into a long term romantic relationship. Maybe not. I don't know why you would stick around after how she's treating you.
You need to have the legal stuff worked out now.
10/10 troll.