What did you think when you first met your wife?

dwightarm wrote:

rojo wrote:

Good post.

Could it possibly be an afraid to come out / hiding of homosexual tendencies?

Rojo... this is just plain stupidity. Anal sex with a woman meaning someone's gay? He's having sex with a woman. A female. Only an idiot would say someone's gay because of that.

And I'm a gay man.

Don't take offense. It's how they are brought up to think in Texas.

VagPref wrote:

I I can honestly say that I have never really understood the obsession with anal sex. It seems like it is way too intentional and it slows down the fun and ruins the mood. Of course that is just my opinion...

The key is for her to start off already wearing the strap-on.

BigButtRater wrote:

She has a nice big butt.

+1

Anonymous....! wrote:

Okay so long story short i met an incredibly cool girl yesterday and we spontaneously went out for dinner and walked around for an hour. And i can't stop thinking about her.

What did you first think when you saw the love of your life for the first time? What did you do?

When I first met me wife I thought she was a bit of a princess, but, she was tiny, hot and had a really nice ass, so I decided to give her a second chance. Turns out she is a princess, but, she is tiny, hot, has a really nice ass, and great tits. So now I'm married.

I thought: she will probably get fat like 90% of all wives who look great in their 20s but doesn't seem like she will be a fat bitch for the next 50 years.

post nup shutoff wrote:

mellow seeds wrote:

You do realize gay dudes are into oral as well? Does recieving one from a woman suggest you want a dude to do the same?

Not hard to tell that for Rojo and the missus it's only missionary in the dark if that.

rojo can't spell "only", "missionary", "dark" or "that". Not even sure he can spell "rojo" without looking it up.

a normal guy wrote:

I thought: she will probably get fat like 90% of all wives who look great in their 20s but doesn't seem like she will be a fat bitch for the next 50 years.

While she's a self confessed princess (it's mostly a joke between us), she's not a bitchy princess - just super girly. She can get ready to go running/yoga quickly (but still wears "outfits") because she just puts her hair in a ponytail - but, going out to dinner etc., is insane. it takes her at least an hour to get ready and I have never been able to see any significant difference before and after. The subtle nuances created by teasing hair for an hour are totally lost on me.

Also - I admit I did worry about potential future weight gain. I did check out her mom first - all of her family are small and skinny. Her mom's now in her late 50's and still tiny too. And, 6 years later my wife is in her early 30's and she's fitter now than when I met her. But, while looks won't last forever, it sure has been awesome so far...

yeah I hear ya I was just replying to the last in line. . .

on another note though, I have to say that she is the one girl I didn't want to do anal with . . . I had too much respect for her.

That may not make sense to some but just sayin.

a normal guy wrote:

on another note though, I have to say that she is the one girl I didn't want to do anal with . . . I had too much respect for her.

That may not make sense to some but just sayin.

On the surface I understand what you are saying. But if both of you enjoy anal, wouldn't it be more respectful to have a sexual relationship that is maximally fulfilling to both of you? I mean, doing anal with a girl who doesn't want to isn't disrespectful so much as rape....

Analoptional wrote:

a normal guy wrote:

on another note though, I have to say that she is the one girl I didn't want to do anal with . . . I had too much respect for her.

That may not make sense to some but just sayin.

On the surface I understand what you are saying. But if both of you enjoy anal, wouldn't it be more respectful to have a sexual relationship that is maximally fulfilling to both of you? I mean, doing anal with a girl who doesn't want to isn't disrespectful so much as rape....

Maybe I should have mentioned she does not want to do it. . . I guess what I was saying was that I never really wanted with her in the first place. Nonsensical, I know.

rojo wrote:

wineturtle wrote:

I can not believe people define their lives by having had anal sex or not.

Is this some sort of weirdly misguided male powertrip idea because they got a woman to submit to their will they are special or something?

Really freekin' odd antisocial group on here, from the hate and bitterness, misogyny, racist rants thru the anti-this and anti-thatness that pervades half the threads I wonder how our species has survived.

Good post.

Could it possibly be an afraid to come out / hiding of homosexual tendencies?

So kissing a woman is latent homo because you secretly want to kiss a man and grabbing a womans ass means you are just about to come out of the closet!

You know nothing about sexuality its irrelevant what you do but who you want to do it with which decides sexuality

All those bragging about their wives, let us see some pics...

rojo wrote:

wineturtle wrote:

I can not believe people define their lives by having had anal sex or not.

Is this some sort of weirdly misguided male powertrip idea because they got a woman to submit to their will they are special or something?

Really freekin' odd antisocial group on here, from the hate and bitterness, misogyny, racist rants thru the anti-this and anti-thatness that pervades half the threads I wonder how our species has survived.

Good post.

Could it possibly be an afraid to come out / hiding of homosexual tendencies?

my reply was to the comment

LRC, welcome to your demographic

and was a comment on a portion of the posters who seem to equate anal sex with power.

Anyone who does not think there is a percentage of the board that posts in an antisocial manner must only read a small portion of the posts.

rojo I have no idea what the underlying reasons would be for a poster to single out one sexual behavior as being more meaningful than others. I am sure that a number of posters do equate anal sex to being more powerful that their partner.

To the poster that spoke to anal sex changing(slowing) the pace of the sexual experience

There are a number of health concerns involved with fecal matter being introduced to the vaginal chamber that do require special attention and awareness (planning?) that may limit the order things are done during sex.

in reply to other assorted comments

If being against antisocial behavior is being judgmental you got me on that one big time.

I enjoy the LR community and the fact that I've been around since the early '00s shows it.

yes my opinions are wide, varied and I'm vocal about them.

I was on The March for Jobs & Freedom, I both protested US military policies and had the honor of serving in the USArmy overseas directly involved with the real life and death ramifications of those policies. I also burned my symbolic bra in the quest for womens rights.

I've had a unique life and lifestyle because I'm a first wave Baby Boomer and my location(NYC) and career path (the evolution of the singles saloon paradigm) have afforded me access to varied lifestyles and social experiences that certainly were not available to a white suburban midwestern youth brought up with strict religious teachings, surrounded with nothing but mirror image friends in the 90s.

One small example I have friends who live in the Ansonia 73&Bway that gave me special access and insight to both The Continental Baths and Plato's Retreat. Having been a member of both clubs even more so. Information about both is widely available. Today hindsight shapes that information but for me the issues surrounding both those lifestyles were up close personal every day experiences.

Ad hominem attacks only show an unwillingness to address the issues with logic and intellect and do not make anyone better than another.

I must be feeling thinskinned today because I normally do not respond like this I tend to read digest and move on>>

let me think awhile on the has my response indicated it's been a good day or a bad day question.

one way or another (mods willing) this post joins the archive of LR '

I also sick to my idea that the LR message board is a social media site like the others in many ways but unique because the community is made up of runners and fans of Athletics.

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LRC is the 4chan of running boards. Get used to it bro.

I met her at a running store

She turned around and smiled at me

I was a dickhead (and oh so easy)

That's when I fell for the bleeder of the stack

What unit were you in?

you were there? wrote:

What unit were you in?

I spent most of my Asian tour '66>.68 at Camp Kaiser Korea 7th Infantry .

I wonder if all of these stories are made up? I mean, I'm 28 and I feel like I'll never get married. Not that I don't want to, but I guess no one wants to marry me. I've even noticed women with nice butts in yoga pants, and still not married.

First saw her in a bar and she took my breath away. A whole bunch of dudes were hitting on her so I didn't even make an attempt. A week or so later I saw her at the same bar. I was standing along the rail next to the dance floor when she came up to me and asked me to pretend I knew her. She was trying to avoid talking to some creeper dude. We ended up dancing some. We had our first date 2 weeks later. Four weeks after that we were engaged. Just celebrated our 20th wedding anniversary.