hey..what do some of you guys do when you get dumped. i've been dumped before, and i've done a fair share of letting go..but this one kind of hurts right now. so i just wanted to know what different people do.
so far, in one day, i've deleted her name out of my phone, erased all of the emails she's ever sent me that i've kept..but not sure whether i should rip up and throw away her stupid pictures.
a.r. thompson
have you tried a power point presentation yet?
that would probably help.
haha..that was funny when i read that in the earlier post. but she dumped me, and no, she didn't use powerpoint. she used EMAIL of all things. like a coward.
any particular things people do? listen to certain songs? get mad and go run a lot? throw themselves into school. i feel down. haha..actually i really do.
a.r. thompson
don't throw pics away, you will regret that. Just go out and get drunk and laid.
I usually just stop trying to act classy. If you feel like you have to take a shit really bad someday, just shit in your pants, let it all come out. Also, vomit in public. And pretend nothing is out of the ordinary.
haha..you guys are funny.
Never burn bridges...just take it on the chin and smile...someday the girl will introduce her kids to you and tell them "there's a nice guy"
It actually means something..I know.
Everytime you think about her, write down something about her that you don't like and put 50 cents in a jar. After a couple of weeks, you will feel like you are better off without her and you will have saved enough money to buy yourself a little something pretty.
Run. Live well, don't poison yourself.
you need to bang her best friend...reperations!
She's a whore for breaking up with you by email.
Nevertheless, just smile and go about your way. There will be other girls. This breakup just signifies that she sucked and you're better off without her. Don't be negative to her. Don't say anything negative to her friends or your friends. Just shrug your shoulders and act like it's no big deal. Hang with your friends a bunch. Don't try to find a sudden replacement; just let it happen. You'll be fine.
Don't rip up the photos, just put them in a place you won't see them.
yes wrote:
don't throw pics away, you will regret that. Just go out and get drunk and laid.
I agree. You will regret the tearing up of photos. Just see it as an opportunity to go crazy a bit and have some fun.
What a great post, I totally agree! And do lots of running, if you feel ripping a run then go for it. Make it hurt and you will finished tired but pleasantly peaceful and at one with yourself...
a.r. thompson wrote:
hey..what do some of you guys do when you get dumped. i've been dumped before, and i've done a fair share of letting go..but this one kind of hurts right now. so i just wanted to know what different people do.
so far, in one day, i've deleted her name out of my phone, erased all of the emails she's ever sent me that i've kept..but not sure whether i should rip up and throw away her stupid pictures.
a.r. thompson
TELL HER IF SHE DOESN'T GET BACK WITH YOU THEN YOU'LL HUNT DOWN HER PARENTS.
this is some good shit youre getting here dude
you really, really need to get out and have a semi-to-full-blown wild night. just go have fun without her. you'll get over it.
JT wrote:
this is some good shit youre getting here dude
This pales in comparison to the stuff the dude with the smokers in the apartment underneath him was getting. Now that was some butt-kicking revenge action!
she dumped you because you are a loser. You are pathetic, trying to solve your problems on a message board. I would have dumped you, too.
justagirl had a very good suggestion by the way.
anyway, yeah i just got dumped via email also and it sucks!!!!!!!! trust me. i am going through the exact same pain that you are right now. i really thought this could be "the one" but i mistaken apparrently. and now she wants to "talk about things." she has called twice and the conversations have just gone in a big circle toward nowhere. and then the other day she tries to instant message me but thankfully i was getting offline right at that moment (yeah i deletd her email address, etc., just like u did---hopefully that'll save me some grief).
i don't think she's trying to torment me by calling, etc. but it just sucks right now, especially with the holidays here. people like me and you just gotta stay strong i guess.
good luck.
I, too, was dumped by email by someone who I thought might be "the one." I came up with all kinds of excuses for her behavior, but the bottom line is that she cared more about avoiding an unpleasant conversation than she did about another person's feelings. I take some comfort in knowing that such people probably aren't good bets for the long term. Still, there's no denying that it hurts.