Am I nitpicking? My girlfriend is a slob.

If you think it's bad now just wait twenty years. Your house will be trashed and she will weigh 300 pounds.

normally you need to be on the same pizza slice on these issues...with long term partners..

doesn't mean you can't date her, but do not marry this person.

These things are guaranteed marriage busters. Any girl who keeps a clean house will catch your eye and make you resent your wife. That's a very low bar - it will happen again and again and again and again and you will start fights about it, etc...

Unless you are living with her (i.e. it makes your place messy) then yes, you are nitpicking.

Who cleans the bathroom and wipes down the mirror ??

Despite your attempts to prove that you are man who lives with a girlfriend, I'm pretty sure you're my mom, OP.

Thematic wrote:

Also, dishes never get rinsed off, washed or put away on time.

On time? Is there a deadline for putting dishes away? Why can't dishes be in the strainer? There's no difference between storing them there or in a cabinet.

What is so gross about socks sitting around? Are they sweaty?

No one could be this OCD/germophobe/stupid. This is a troll.

jyd wrote:

Thematic wrote:

Also, dishes never get rinsed off, washed or put away on time.

On time? Is there a deadline for putting dishes away? Why can't dishes be in the strainer? There's no difference between storing them there or in a cabinet.

Well yes there is. You have to stay ahead of the rate they are accumulating at.

To be happy a woman needs a man who is richer and more successful than herself. On the other side a man can only be happy if he has a woman who is better looking and tidier than himself.

[quote]agip wrote:

normally you need to be on the same pizza slice on these issues.'

Yet another term you will never hear again. Where you you nerds come from.

To the op why don't you do the dishes if it bothers you.. and stick a sock in it

If your girlfriend is hot, then there should be no reason as to why you are posting this on here. If she is ugly, then this is a problem amongst the others you stated.

Thanks for all the advice. In regard to the dishes, the problem is they pile up quicker than they get put away. I have begun to resent her for this....it sucks, but I can't seem to get it out of my mind. If I'm home and I see extra dishes stacked up, I immediately put them away. It's almost OCD at this point.

Xcereder wrote:

If you think it's bad now just wait twenty years. Your house will be trashed and she will weigh 300 pounds.

^ This.

Distressed Wittle Boy wrote:

Despite your attempts to prove that you are man who lives with a girlfriend, I'm pretty sure you're my mom, OP.

POD

lol, I don't think it'll get that bad.

Why not just admit you don't love her and move on? That's the real problem.

Thematic wrote:

lol, I don't think it'll get that bad.

Obviously you're not willing to learn.

Thematic wrote:

lol, I don't think it'll get that bad.

You're cute

Thematic wrote:

Thanks for all the advice. In regard to the dishes, the problem is they pile up quicker than they get put away. I have begun to resent her for this....it sucks, but I can't seem to get it out of my mind. If I'm home and I see extra dishes stacked up, I immediately put them away. It's almost OCD at this point.

She's doing the dishes and stacking them for you, and you put them away (when you get around to it) Sounds like a good division of labor.