broke nigas wrote:
I'm 26 and my parents didn't contribute anything towards my college education. That includes food, clothes, gas, etc. I was completely on my own. The only reason I made it through was thanks to a full academic scholarship, a partial track scholarship, student loans, and working 2 nights each week and all day Sunday. However, everyone else I knew received some kind of aid from their parents. Many parents contributed partially towards tuition, but just about all received either a credit card or an allowance each week for food, gas, and other "essentials". Today, it is near impossible to go through college on your own without assistance from parents. I made it, but I didn't have any luxuries, I didn't get to eat out, and I was always scraping by.
You are very fortunate, but it is also fairly normal.
If you feel this is TL;DR then at least read the last paragraph
Flagpole I understand where you are coming from. My parents made a lot of money and because of it, I didn't qualify for ANY financial aid. However, they didn't spend a penny on me after I graduated high school. Being completely on your own and having to finance college in today's world is very hard to do. As you can see above, I had to work hard just to get by and that was with 2 scholarships and loans. My academic scholarship covered tuition. Athletic covered some of the fees associated. Loans helped covered the remaining fees, books, and rent. People underestimate how much fees are for college. It's a big hidden cost. On top of school and track (which I'm sure most of you know how time consuming those 2 can be) I had to work 20 hours a week at minimum wage just to get by. That covered gas, food, insurance, cell phone, internet, utilities, and everything else.
Now if my parents made significantly less, I would have received financial aid. Along with my scholarships, that would easily cover tuition, books, fees, and room and board. The only thing left would be gas, cell phone, and insurance. I wouldn't have had to work nearly 20 hours a week and I wouldn't have had to take out ANY student loans.
The current financial aid system is set up ASSUMING your parents are going to PAY a DETERMINED AMOUNT of MONEY depending on how much they make. And because of this, the cost of college has been inflated making it impossible to afford without aid (either from the school or from your parents). So if your parents did not save up enough money to meet that demand, then you're stuck footing the bill. So it's not that some kid feels entitled and he "deserves" money from his parents. It's that these institutions feel entitled and they "deserve" money from some kids parents.