I hate writing this and almost don't want to, but it is very relevant to the thread.
A few months ago my husband and I gave in to our daughter's request and decided to hold her 5-year birthday party at the Chuck E. Cheese here in town. She invited her entire class, which was about 30 kids.
It was a random Tuesday evening, so the place was not crowded. A few families having dinner. We were the only party.
If you've hosted a Chuck E. Cheese party, you know how it works. Kids each get 20 tokens (every game/ride is 1 token) and there is about 30 minutes of arcade time prior to the pizza coming out. So all of the 5-year-olds are playing games and having fun when in walks a family with about 5 kids ranging from 5 to 10 years old. I guess they order something to eat but their kids go straight to the game room and start ordering the kids in our party to "let them hold a token." Our kids are preschoolers who don't even understand what is going on, so they do what they are told. I see it happen a few times and decide to intervene by alerting their parents. My husband was kind of mad so i didn't want him getting involved. I approach them nicely and explain the situation and get a blank stare and the mom screams across the restaurant at one of the kids, who just looks up and runs off. She then tells me to tell her kids to "stop begging."
Obviously their kids continue to do this and I can't follow them around yelling at them, so I alert our guests' parents and we do our best to slow it down. I spoke to the manager and she said it happens almost every party but that there is little they can do about it if the family has ordered food.
She did offer to help us out when one of the kids grabbed a piece of cake, but I told her to let the kid have it and even offered it to the other 5 or so non-party kids in the restaurant.
I can see where if this happened to a party that was being given by someone who was more hostile than we were, a fight could break out.