Ok, I'm really upset about something, and I can't figure out how to let it out or what to do?
Ok my GF and I are fighting because I got upset that she is having dinner with her ex-bf on Sunday. She didn't tell me until today, and made plans a week ago. I was planning on surprising her with a valentines dinner and gift. Not any more. She was with this guy for 3.5 years and broke up with him in October. I have been dating her for 2 months. When I asked if she can cancel she got upset because I kept asking her to cancel. Then we got into a huge argument about how she likes to plan things and that I like to be spontaneous and that I need to learn to plan things ahead of time. Long story short she was pissed, I was pissed and now we are not talking. She means everything to me, and I was just upset because I wanted to see her and now I might not even be able to see her on Valentines day. Was I right to be pissed?
Should I:
a) try and work it out?
b) just say fu** it and break up with her when she calls me?
c) apologize say I'm sorry and work around the schedule.