What do you do if you've been in a relationship with someone for a while and you finally tell the person you love them, and they don't say it back? I don't feel I can ever say it again. Should I take it as an indicator that her heart isn't into the relationship? Or should I give her time and let her feeling develop at their speed (if they ever do at all)?
thissucks wrote:
What do you do if you've been in a relationship with someone for a while and you finally tell the person you love them, and they don't say it back? I don't feel I can ever say it again. Should I take it as an indicator that her heart isn't into the relationship? Or should I give her time and let her feeling develop at their speed (if they ever do at all)?
Love is not a feeling. If you don't know that then you shouldn't really be using the word.
If you want to understand better read Fromm's The Art of Loving.
Good luck.
Force them to say it. Even if they don't mean it, make them say it.
thissucks wrote:
What do you do if you've been in a relationship with someone for a while and you finally tell the person you love them, and they don't say it back?
You may want to revise the title of your thread.
This is rather simple really. What you should do is the following: DO HER FROM BEHIND.
just another guy wrote:
This is rather simple really. What you should do is the following: DO HER FROM BEHIND.
Of all people you should know goats are very timid and will startle if you approach them from behind!
Jesus . . . haven't you ever seen a sitcom? Give her some time. She may love you and just not be ready to say it yet.
Concerned Citizen wrote:
Jesus . . . haven't you ever seen a sitcom? Give her some time. She may love you and just not be ready to say it yet.
^^^highly unlikely. But, I guess it can't hurt to hope against all odds.
thissucks wrote:
What do you do if you've been in a relationship with someone for a while and you finally tell the person you love them, and they don't say it back?
You have to get that return "I love you".
I only said it once (to a dog). It licked itself, and left the room.
This could get complicated, but with the right plan, you you could pull it off. You'll need some rubber gloves, duct tape, a bit of rope, some GHB, a room with sound proof walls, a white cargo van without windows in the back, condoms, and a little bit of luck, and I think you just might be able to "make" her love you. Now get out there and make YOUR dream a reality, you crazy kid, you.
You know folks, you gotta pull for the little guy out there, who is just trying to carve out his little bit of the American dream, and it all starts with forcible love.
I'm Runner THX1137, we'll see you next time on Letsrun Online, your internet guide to getting what you want, when you want it, in a way that makes your dreams a reality.
You just gave away the excitement, the mystery and the control. Don't let the L word cross your lips until you've had at least two kids together.
mellon wrote:
You have to get that return "I love you".
I only said it once (to a dog). It licked itself, and left the room.
Interesting, I said it to my dog, but it licked my balls instead. You got a no, but I apparently got a yes.
Concerned Citizen wrote:
Jesus . . . haven't you ever seen a sitcom? Give her some time. She may love you and just not be ready to say it yet.
In real life Ross would never have shagged Rachel. All that winning her over is strictly for the films
To the op big mistake to say it first
Unrequited love is not love at all
This happened to me once a long time ago. I told her, "I love you," and she didn't say it back, just smiled. Within a couple weeks, she told me she loved me, and we said "I love you" frequently to each other -- sheer euphoria for a while.
EPILOGUE: The relationship didn't last anyway.