Ok this is a fair question and I'll try to give you some fair answers.
First, I actually don't totally understand your logic. You're saying that you should be allowed to use a computer because you actually do understand the math and you just need the computer to help you copy one line to the next. If your only problem is that you wish you had some software that would let you copy one line to the next without making stupid mistakes, then I totally agree and think that should be ubiquitous. I have similar issues all the time and I use a computer to do it for me most of the time nowadays. The problem with letting kids do this is that there isn't much software out there that will JUST let them copy one line to the next, most of it will also do the math for them, and that's the problem that I think teachers are trying to avoid. The learning process is obviously going to be hindered if the computer really does everything for you, so it's difficult to know where to draw the line on the issue when kids are learning something new.
For example, I was visiting a friend in DC, and I went to buy a croissant at a cafe. The croissant cost $2.07 or something. I handed the cashier a $5 bill and said, "Wait a sec," while rummaging through my wallet for change. The cashier immediately typed $5.00 into the cash register, which told her the change was $2.93. I then handed her $0.07, so that she could just give me $3 in change instead of $2.93. But the cashier didn't know how to do basic subtraction without a machine, so she just started yelling at me for handing her more change after she'd already typed in the number because now she had to type it in again, and she didn't realize I was trying to give her less work. I swear this story is true.
Second, a computer won't be able to help you with certain things when math becomes more advanced. I'm a statistical geneticist, so I try to come up with better statistical methods for genetics research and I use statistical methods to analyze genetic data myself. I often use python notebooks to do calculations and share results with people, but computers can't do all of my work for me.
-For most of my work, the first step involves creating a model, which means understanding the weaknesses of existing models, making improvements and approximations that seem reasonable under our experimental conditions, and trying to understand under what conditions those approximations hold. A calculator can't do those things.
-The second step is often to create some simulation that tests our model. The computer does the bulk of the work, but we still have to be able to figure out what sort of simulation to create and what sorts of parameters to use. The computer cannot do that for us, and it can't test all possibilities because it would take too long (like a million years on a thousand CPUs running in parallel or something like that).
-The third step is usually to figure out whether and how the simulation is broken. That means making more approximations, figuring out simple tests, and trying to understand how a weird result could come about.
-A separate but important issue is that a significant part of our work requires discussing our methods and results with each other and with other people. We have some fairly complicated models that we need to write out. I sketch diagrams and write out equations on white boards to discuss them with other people. A calculator can't really do that either. There are tools that you can download to a computer that can allow you to use it as a whiteboard, but then everyone needs to have access to those same tools and there are times when a whiteboard is simply more convenient (a computer screen the size of a wall would be expensive).
So basically, there are a few reasons that I've given why a computer can't/shouldn't always be relied upon:
1. Computers can be a crutch that prevent people from learning effectively
2. Computers might be a good solution for simple problems but a bad solution as the complexity grows
3. Computers don't lend themselves towards doing non-standard math
4. They can't really help if you're trying to make improvements to existing math
5. They sometimes take a lot of time
6. They sometimes aren't the best way to share and discuss things with other people
In conclusion, I don't think there's anything wrong with an adult using a calculator or computer whenever they can, but I think they often hinder the learning process and they can't solve all your problems, so you should at least be capable of knowing how the math works without relying on them.