you should feel bad because you're making up this whole scenario
if you were dating 3 women, you shouldn't feel bad unless you've told one or more of them that you're exclusively seeing them. then you're just a dirtbag
you should feel bad because you're making up this whole scenario
if you were dating 3 women, you shouldn't feel bad unless you've told one or more of them that you're exclusively seeing them. then you're just a dirtbag
Come on guys.
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Since you started this thread, you must be feeling bad about the situation. I'm not going to sit here and tell you it's wrong to date 3 women, but it is wrong to be hiding it from them, especially if you're sleeping with all of them. You should either pick one and dump the others, or tell them what you're doing and let them dump or keep you (some may not care that you're sleeping around, and maybe they're doing the same). If you want my opinion, based on what you've written, you should go with #2. You seem to think she is the most interesting and you can be yourself around her.
Dump #1. College sluts are to be f****d, so get rid of her soon.
Dump #3 if you can't see yourself marrying her or having a serious relationship. Ask yourself: "Does she have idiosyncrasies that I can live with?" and "Does she make me genuinely happy (outside of the bedroom)?"
Keep #2 only if you dump #1 and #3. Although she seems cool.
for whats its worth... i have to say i have been in a similar mindset (basically got out of a tough relationship and then was like f*** it)... its been great. women really dig that attitude.
i dont know if i am helping at all... oh. my point is that you can be honest with ladies in this situation - - but you prob have to be honest from the start... telling them you were hurt and now you are just rolling with life one week at a time.
seeing your situation was not rooted in honesty, i would say that really ask yourself what you want... do you enjoy this game (i am sure it is fun at times) or is the stress starting to wear on you. decide who to break up with and proceed from there. or, just enjoy it and try not to be more dishonest moving forward. (is that possible?)
good luck. fun times.
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Look how many serious responses you got!
Just bang as many chicks as you can. You may find it harder to be content within any marriage subsequent to such behavior, though, as you will have prepared poorly for monogamy. Trust me, I'm 84 years old, founded "Playboy," am about to enter into my third marriage, and have bedded dozens of Playmates, though others have reported that I'm a self-worker from time to time - even during orgies. Oh, and if you impregnate any of the chicks, just have the little non-f*cker inside her aborted - that is why "Playboy" provided "amicus curiae" briefs for Roe v. Wade way back around the early 1970s.
SarCHASM - it's the gulf between the author of intended irony and the person who does not understand it.
Breasts are for babies, LEGS are for Men.
Have them race a 1600 on a track. No rules other than they have to make it 4 times around. First one across the finish line and hoepfully the last one standing- that's your winner.
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This sounds like the best problem ever.
Umm, this ^
Send me your name and address. I'll contact the tv show Cheaters. I'd love to see how this unfolds.
I think you gave yourself up as a troll when you said #3 just shows up at your house. If that's the case then she's crazy and you have to be worried that she's going to show up at other times.
you should try to get a threesome of foursome going, that would be a real achievement
It's the shittiest problem ever as far as I'm concerned. Been there. You don't end up just lying to them, but everyone you really care about just to keep your alibi's intact. You'll end up avoiding almost everyone, looking over your shoulder all the time. I successfully broke free of mine and nonone got hurt, but I can't tell you how bad I hated life - God had mercy on me. I even came close to the three-in-one-day and it'll happen to you because you'll have to.
Is your head spinning yet - since your entire schedule is devoted to covering up lies? How is your wallet holding up? Bank account is getting small on all the dates isn't it?
actually, rank them in order of who has the biggest bush
then make your choice
can we please stop responding to this troll?
the fact that there are three woman of such differing, distinct personas is the first clue. "the college chick", "the alternative chick", "the good girl"....c'mon- who really falls into such typical categories?
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This is what my friends and i have been doing for the whole last year. Basically we have this competition to see who can be the biggest scumbag. Things like see how many girls we can juggle at a time, see who can get away with the most shit. I say you see if you can add a couple more to the three cause really once it all crumbles down, who gives a shit?
I say from experience this isn't a troll.
I got married real young and divorced a couple years later but for a while it was a "divorce with benefits" I also started seeing a girl I went with a couple years in high school. Around this time, I went out a few times with a girl from work who was split up with her husband so I was doing all of them at the same time and hit the two in one day double a couple times.
I had it easier though as only one of the three lived in the same town I did. It was fun while it lasted. Girl from work ended up hooking up with another of her exes. Ex wife and I finally drifted apart and I broke up with the girl I went with in high school. I kept it to one at a time after that.
Fun w/ trolls is fun.
Don't see any problem here. He hasn't told any of them that he is exclusive as far as I can tell. I personally have dated multiple women at once but always believed that intimacy and exclusivity went together in my relationships and acted on that.
Anyway, wrap that sucker up and get tested regularly. You may well be sleeping with a human petri dish.
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By stopped caring, he means he stopped caring what they looked like. The chicks are probably 3-4's. Note the first one is a smoking partying college chick (read somewhat fat), the second is a tatoo'ed up hipster (probably somewhat dike looking), and the third sounds insecure, probably because she is fat.
Easily possible.
I've had the same sort of dilemmas, and actually did end up bedding all three in a 24-hour period once..two were early 30's and one early 20's (I was mid-20's). One was smoking, one was tall and thin w/ big (fake) boobs but not an amazing face, and the other was a decently attractive freak in bed. I never seriously considered dating any of them, but it was fun while it lasted. How old are you? Just let it roll!