Cheating

You should become a Eunuch.

I do not think you are a "good guy" as you say. If you are willing to cheat on the people you love most, why would you be loyal to anyone at all?

Be careful of your thoughts, for your thought become your words. Be careful of your words, for your words become your actions. Be careful of your actions, for your actions become your habits. Be careful of your habits, for your habits become your character. Be careful of your character, for your character becomes your destiny.

Sounds like you don't have much character at all.

People always consider themselves to be the "good guy."

You should seek therapy. Seriously. You lack insight into your own character and motivations.

I used to be just like you. If it had a skirt and a pair of boobs, I'd nail it. I was very, very lucky. No diseases, no pregnancies.

One day I woke up and realized all my friends had these solid marriages and I was just a Woody Wooderson joke. Met someone, didn't cheat but it didn't work out. I even had such a had image of myself for being such a whore that I even dated a "reformed" stripper thinking I'd just have to settle. I didn't even cheat then. Proof I was growing up.

Finally, I met a great girl and get this, she was a virgin. I didn't deserve it but after 12 years together, I have never even remotely considered cheating.

My advise is, you're not ready, but when you are, man up.

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Hey, if it makes you feel any better, you are better adjusted than 99.9% of the male posters here!

Yeah, Im kind of similar actually. Although, I guess I've never cheated during a serious relationship. I've "cheated" when I had just been with a person for 2 months and we had not defined it yet. Actually I have cheated a lot in that type of situation. Like we were together but it wasn't all that serious. I'm hoping this won't be the case when I am in a more serious relationship. I've never been with anyone I actually thought I would spend my life with. I guess if I did I would take it more seriously. never has seemed like the right time or person even if they were great people I liked. Maybe you are similar. Maybe you have been in these relationships but deep down you actually did not seem them lasting forever so at some level it did not seem like a big deal to cheat. who knows

I'm the same way. Can't pass up sex with someone new. I'm not a good guy and I'm ok with it because the only sex I find exciting is new sex.

Maybe that'll change, maybe it won't. Just don't get caught and don't put your girlfriends at risk (ie. use protection).

Dude so, you're a chick and you're trollin' we got it.