What's the longest you've gone out with someone knowing that it wouldn't last long term?

4+ months. She had the longest most beautiful legs around. Astonishing really. Body was good too. Face was, well, functional. She gave great head, she swallowed, and she eventually put out and was halfway decent. She was also very immature and had even more immature friends.

She was fun to hang around with, but for me, there never was any spark. Unfortunately she was falling love. I sensed this and started becoming harder to find. Except on Thursday-Saturday nights. I met another woman who I was more interested in and once that showed some promise I let this one go. She cried and cried "WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY?"

4 months.

Same situation as you, she was cool enough for a short while and it was fun to have someone to bang.

After a while she got more and more needy, as if the relationship was quite serious. So I ended it.

33 years

65fhg wrote:

33 years

That's a good one!

8 years

Legit Drop Dead Beautiful, poised graceful, charming, knew the salad fork from the dessert fork and were they were placed yet she could shoot the shit out of a clay bird, beat allcomers in belching and change a tire fast than anyone I knew. Tremendus appetite for life, for adventure and the best cuddler in the world.

We always were laughing I can not remember even raising our voices in anger let alone have a 'drama'.To each other we were the best hangout buddy, best friend, holder of secretes, brutally honest yet wise counsellor and biggest fan. We traveled all over the USA together, sex was at times earthshaking, down stairs neighbor tried to get us evicted because "they pound on the floor with sledgehammers for 2 and sometimes 3 hours in a row and at all hours of the day and night"... at worst it was great. I did not want to have kids she wanted them so we just lived in the moment until her bioclock was ticking too too loudly. 26 to 34 great years to have fun, live life and smell the roses.

sounds like you wish you had conceded and gave her the baby batter.

Going on 15 years. Advice: If you not sure, wear 2 condoms!

Nope not a bit, it would not have worked out like it did if either of us was looking to change the other or if we thought it would go on forever.. I saw her and her family over Thanksgiving and speak with her husband or her weekly. Honestly no regrets at all. A wonderful memorey and a continuing friendship. But most of all seeing them with their children reminds me that I am not that Daddy guy but he is. Their kids are perfect the right parts of him and a lot of her.

8 months. She was a hot, half brazilian high jumper that i met in college. We had every reason to wanna get it on but i realized after a while just wasn't that attracted to her, she was hot and all but i didn't want to do her that bad. still friends to this day.

2.5 years. I knew within six months, but I was lonely. Dumb idea, break it off sooner. It stung immensely after all that extra time.

65fhg wrote:

33 years

I LOLed.

I'm the type who dates around, has fun, but never has a steady girlfriend because I'm not looking for any kind of committed relationship. I used to flirt with a lot of girls. I knew the only way I could ever be in a serious relationship is if the woman was damn near perfect for me. Well, I've now been with a girl for about 3.5 months, and in that time the longest we have gone without seeing each other is 4 days, and we usually see each other almost every day. We've spent a LOT of time together over the last few months, and though she's not THE perfect girl for me (I doubt one even exists), she's EASILY the greatest girl I've found in my life thus far, though I am only 22. I've never gotten along so well with anyone. Problem is, she's a grad student from another country, and she has to leave the America once she finishes her degree. I still don't know what to do... I don't like to think about it. I truly love her, but I'm not sure things can work out with us. If so, I will be end up being with a girl I love for a year before she leaves and I probably will never see her again. It's quite troubling.

Worst idea ever (I hope you are not serious, but in case you are) ... wearing two condoms increases the chance that both of them will break. Put another way, simply because you gave out such bad advice (in jest, I hope): wearing two condoms increases the chances of an unwanted pregnancy.

Nine months, when I was 23. Spent about four of it in Europe. Lots and lots and lots of sex. She dumped me in the end but I hung on as long as I could for her willingness to do pretty much anything anywhere anytime...

Hmm well I'm in a relationship with a girl I like but know there's no future there (about to graduate and she's still got two years) for the last two months. Just hope there's no "let's stay together" drama at the end of it.

i did the opposite. i had a girl who i saw as having long term promise. but since i am still pretty young (and stupid) i wanted to mess around for the time being. so i broke up with her so i could "try other people". it seemed like the right thing to do at the time, even though i didnt really want to do it. that was months ago. i regret that decision every day.

If you regret it then why don't you date her again? Seems simple to me.

she doesnt want to

Try showing her how much she really means to you? If you really want to be with her go after her.

Just short of two years for one relationship, and a couple of others that lasted over a year apiece. I wasn't in any hurry to find "the one" and all of the women in question were lovely and nice and smart and sexy...we were all very considerate of each other. And honest with each other.