I have a problem... About 12 years ago, I cheated on my wife with this girl here in town. We worked together (but knew each other socially too) and hooked up after a Christmas party at the office.
The next day, we went to lunch and discussed the event. We decided that we did not want to leave or respective lives, but wanted to do the same thing each year.
Well, I left for another job but she continued to want to meet up every Christmas.
My relationship with my wife has improved over the past 12 years and I no longer want to do this. I have kids, responsibilities, etc. I am an adult now.
I have not met with this woman for the past two years. Each time she has gotten kind of angry but continues to inquire the following year.
So I just got an email from her, which is a lot more "open" than our usual correspondence. This scares me.
You would think she would have gotten the point by now, but I am terrified that she is going to get angry and spill the beans.
Any advice on how to approach her with the idea that we no longer do this?
Please spare me the proselytizing; I know that what we did was wrong.