Well dude, it's obvious that you're still going to marry her. Hopefully for your sake she just wanted one more time in the sack with someone other than you (because I do believe she slept with him or did something with him that she's never going to tell you). If she was naive then she needs not to be at age 33 (when do you stop being naive about these things?). If she was wanting to make you jealous, then WTF? My wife would never try to make me have a negative emotion. Spouses are supposed to support each other, not play sophomoric relationship games.All I can offer you at this point is my sincere hope that she grows up fast. In all sincerity, good luck with the wedding and the marriage. I hope it all works out well.
mad and in need of advice wrote:
Thanks, man!
She said it was her fault and she apologized for meeting this guy for dinner. I don't know if she was a little bit naive or if she wanted to make me jealous. I think it's a little bit of both. I also apologized for reading her email and calling the guy (even if it felt good at the time). So we agreed that we both made mistakes.
Also to answer another question we've been dating for seven years and engaged for a year and a half.
stuck with match.com wrote:Are you saying that she told you it was your fault for the reason why she went out with and acted the way she did?