I live with my fiance of seven years and we’re getting married at the end of August. Last week she told me that a guy she went to high school with a while ago (we’re both 33) sent her an email out of the blue and wanted to “catch up”. Their moms know each other from the town where they grew up and he stills sees her mom sometimes I think.
The guy is married, 33, no kids. He’s a teacher who lives in the suburbs, about 45 minutes by train from where we are. I met him only once, 5 years ago, at their high school reunion. That’s the only time I met him and I disliked him immediately. At the reunion he was with his then fiance but was flirting with my girlfriend. I asked her what was going on, and she said that they kissed once in high school, but nothing more, and that they were friends.
After that my fiance saw him once again about one year ago with her mom and family. She never calls him, emails him or talks about him. He's not even invited to our wedding.
Well last night my fiance met him after work around 7pm. That creep took the train to meet her and after a few drinks he proposed to go to a restaurant for dinner in a nice place in a beautiful part of town. Finally at 11pm I called my fiance to ask her where she was and if I could meet with her. She refused to tell me where they were (I only learned today where they were). She said they were paying the bill and she was about to come home. She hung up.
So at home I opened her email account on our shared computer (she never logs off), read the email from this creep ("I miss you!") and got his cell phone number. I called him and pretty much told him to go f@@k himself. He called my fiance right away to tell her. When she came home, she was mad at me as hell, and we are still mad at each other today.
I think the one who did something wrong is that creep. I want to get back at him, but I don’t know how. Any ideas?