Batman344 wrote:
If the woman wants to keep her name or have me take hers she better buy my meals, pay for our dates, open my door, ask me out, and suprise me with gifts to show she cares. Otherwise these neo-feminists need to shut the hell up and crawl back under their self appointed pulpits. What is so wrong with culture? It's our history. It's a name, it changes, you'll survive!
BTW You get way more fun parts than we do how is that fair?
See, there's no "otherwise." The neofeminist nazis (and I, although I am not one of them) believe that a woman should do all of those things for a man as much as the man does them for her. In this day and age, nobody expects the man to buy all the meals, pay for all the dates, open the door all the time, always ask the woman out, and be the only one surprising with gifts. I think that's one of the cultural norms that has fallen by the wayside with the men only in the workplace norm (and is probably connected; if women didn't make the money, how were they supposed to pay for anything).
I think your view of dating and man/woman relationships is pretty antiquated. Absolutely none of the women I know think this way.