My married friends who are runners put me on to that thread after I told them about my pending nuptials?
Things are pretty damn good right now, how do I avoid the post nuptial shutoff?
My married friends who are runners put me on to that thread after I told them about my pending nuptials?
Things are pretty damn good right now, how do I avoid the post nuptial shutoff?
Make her sign a contract. Take her to court if she denies you sex. Which she will since you're dumb enough to post such a topic. 1/10
Actually that's a good idea. I don't think she believes post nuptial shutoff would occur so she wouldn't mind signing it. I could do it as a joke but then keep it.
Can't vouch for this personally, but it's family therapist Esther Perel's specialty:
http://www.wnyc.org/shows/bl/episodes/2006/11/22#segment69388
Believe me, wives are looking for lovers and studly men, not wimpy boys who can only get it up once a week because they are too tired from running the other six days. Real men are ready to go anytime. Women know that.
Don't get married?
How about marrying someone who loves you and enjoys having sex with you? Believe it or not, there are plenty of women (most, in fact) who actually enjoy sex and want to have lots of it with their significant others.
Continue posting on Letsrun. Women find it irresistible!
Learn to spell.
Aviod was a typo. I spelled it right on the post.
My runner friends warned me that some runner types get a bit uptight. They are cool and not like that at all. If you get your nose out of joint because of a typo you are proabably in the uptight group.
Don't have kids.
just engaged wrote:
proabably
Probably.
You're welcome.
what do i know wrote:
Don't have kids.
Yep, because that naturally decreases sex drive in women...don't be mad, it's just fact that occurs in NATURE.
also, and this will get responses like "are you a 16th century KRAZY prude!", but don't have sex before marriage. seriously, if you want to guarantee sex after marriage, don't have any before. you won't be tired of it after the wedding cake. sure, you'll retort that how can you take the car off the lot if you haven't test driven it.
one.
Don't get married for sex.
Learn to use your tongue. Well.
You cannot apparently; or only if you WORK at it like no one else.
jrgajr wrote:
Learn to use your tongue. Well.
I find this to be true. Married 14yrs.
This guy has some pretty decent advice: http://www.marriedmansexlife.com
Ropes, leather straps, vaseline and a ball gag usually work very well in these sorts of cases.
As long as you are a man and satisfy your wife, there will be no shutoff. If running kills your sex drive, expect it to also kill your wife's desire to have sex with you.
End of thread.