QuestionHere wrote:
Having kids seems to strange to me. I'm 22 now and can't see the big deal in having them. But then every single person I talk to says its the best day of your life. It's like no one sees the joy in them until they have them (I am mostly referring to men). I know women usually want to have them but as a guy I have trouble understanding the whole thing. I mean I probably will have them someday and see what everyone os talking about but what is the feeling like that is so life changing?
Also how old were alot of people when they had them on this board. 25? 30? older?
You're absolutely right in my case. I couldn't imagine why people had them until I had my own. Now I can't imagine living without them. They're both an absolute joy to me. I was 39 when my first son was born and 43 when the second one came along.