Amazed wrote:
I cannot quit this job for a variety of reasons and really don't think I need to justify them to this board. I was just making a statement about what I was observing. I never said I didn't like my job in general or the company I work for. That actually has nothing to do with it and I would not quit over this matter anyways. Just a statement. Man are some parents on this board a tad sensitive and cannot take it when someone call them out on something?
You are not calling me out on anything, I don't have kids.
I am not sure why you don't see these parents leaving to take care of their kids as important. These people are taking care of another human being during this time.
I understand that you don't want kids, but please understand that if you had an elderly parent or something to take care of, you would probably do the same.
What would you be doing with your spare time if you weren't at work? Would you rather be doing that? Go do it then. If you would rather be at work, why are you complaining?
You are just bitching about it for the sake of bitching, there is plenty you can do to change it. You are doing more than making a statement about it. You are acting as if you are being wronged. If you want half days, take them. Start an initiative for fitness where you can only leave if you are going to go work out.
I wasn't solely recommending you quit the job - just do something about what you see as unfair. Make some changes, you don't have to be president to do that. I bet HR would love to work with you to get a healthier workplace. You would be surprised what can be done.
If you are asked to work late b/c you are single/childless, tell them no b/c you have to take care of your dog, have an appointment, prior engagement, etc.
I am not sure what you do for a living, but it sounds like you would not want to work late/overtime. If this is the case, do not do it. If you do like to do it, why complain that you get the opportunity?