Ghost, bless your father-in-law too. Bless all of them. I watched my dad weep openly during Memorial Day celebrations. The sacrifices of those who served and those who didn't return home are sobering.
However I do have one selfish reason to celebrate my father's service. He met my mother when he was stationed in Germany, and after he returned to the States they were wed and raised a family. My mother has harrowing stories of growing up in Nazi Germany. She has always said how grateful she is to have become a citizen and live in our country.