Just to give a little more detail...Friday night, in bed, seems like might get it. Wife says long day but we will do it tomorrow. Fine. Saturday morning, wake up, try to get some. She's not going for it, says for sure that afternoon. After grocery shopping and errands, watch a DVD. She wants to cuddle while we watch. Fine, I say OK, but let's do it naked. She says OK. Watch it naked, I am on good behavior, not "poking" her the whole time. Stop a few times to discuss the move, kiss a little. Rub her back the whole movie like she likes. After movie, stay naked on the couch and talk about summer plans. Cuddle more, and I am staying patient. She falls asleep. I start watching the Oregon - Kansas game, staying patient thinking, when she wakes up, I'm in there. She wakes up, apologizes for falling asleep, goes into the bedroom, puts on pajamas and goes to bed. Me and my rock hard Johnson have been waiting all day. Been waiting 23 out of last 24 days, which I know is not as bad as some on here, but is killing me. Ask for it every day. I'm done. Going to tell her things need to change in the morning or we need to have a serious discussion about our future. Married 23 years, one kid is out of the house.
She is quitting her teaching job this year after 10+ years. Is tired and wants some time off to do something else. Fine. I will keep working my full time job, plus the part time consulting gig I have. But after you quit, if I don't get it every other day, something's gonna change.