I am in my late 30s, and even at this age, it seems like 80% of the women roughly in my age bracket on dating apps are single moms. The other 20% are ugly spinsters. I am beginning to think the only real way to find a quality woman who isn't a single mom is to date women 30 or younger, but I'm not sure how realistic that is if you're 40+ years old? Even at my age, I've had multiple women in their 20s tell me straight up that they're very attracted to me but that the age difference is too much and weird for them. I'm not blaming them exactly, just that it seems like the outlook for single guys in their late 30s and 40s is pretty bleak unless you're a multi-millionaire. I live in a somewhat rural area though... Is it any better in big cities?
