I am in my late 30s, and even at this age, it seems like 80% of the women roughly in my age bracket on dating apps are single moms. The other 20% are ugly spinsters. I am beginning to think the only real way to find a quality woman who isn't a single mom is to date women 30 or younger, but I'm not sure how realistic that is if you're 40+ years old? Even at my age, I've had multiple women in their 20s tell me straight up that they're very attracted to me but that the age difference is too much and weird for them. I'm not blaming them exactly, just that it seems like the outlook for single guys in their late 30s and 40s is pretty bleak unless you're a multi-millionaire. I live in a somewhat rural area though... Is it any better in big cities?
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Cities and their suburbs have lots of women in their 30s who are neither married, nor single moms. Dating apps are only one way to find women and many good ones don't use them. Good luck.
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You are doing your Christmas shopping on Christmas Eve. Sorry.
The best women are still married, next best are divorced at least once.
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You should have gotten married by 25 if these things bother you.
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If looks are important to you, the majority of attractive women with normal personalities will have had a child by their 30s and definitely 40s. Dating for a 40 year old guy is basically accept single moms, attempt to date crazy younger women or date a foreigner keen on immigrating. I've accepted single moms, as other options are worse.
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OP, you can be me and still pull the best 20 something's at 40. I aint even there yet. Unc still got it though, baby.
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Probably not. Look at the Amazon guy. He can buy everyone and still got a single mom.
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Steve The Addict OFFICIAL -----^^^^^ wrote:
OP, you can be me and still pull the best 20 something's at 40. I aint even there yet. Unc still got it though, baby.
Yeah, listen to the guy who’s almost 40 and posting on letsrun constantly like it’s his job… that’s how you can tell he’s pulling the hot women. Because right? Like every time I’m about to bang one of the many hot 20 year olds, from Canada who you all probably don’t know, I definitely am like ‘babe, I just gotta go post about how cool I am on a running website, then like totally run a sub 14 5k cause that’s my easy pace, and then like I’ll totally be ready to bang. 20 minutes max and I’ll be ready to totally bang so hard.’
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Uncle Bosie wrote:
Probably not. Look at the Amazon guy. He can buy everyone and still got a single mom.
That's because he has little man syndrome. He thinks he's cool with a braindead plastic surgery doll and a 600 million dollar wedding. But hey, I guess he showed up the jocks from his high school after all, right?
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Good looking spinsters are living the sex and the city lifestyle. They don't want relationships.
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They're everywhere wrote:
I am in my late 30s, and even at this age, it seems like 80% of the women roughly in my age bracket on dating apps are single moms. The other 20% are ugly spinsters. I am beginning to think the only real way to find a quality woman who isn't a single mom is to date women 30 or younger, but I'm not sure how realistic that is if you're 40+ years old? Even at my age, I've had multiple women in their 20s tell me straight up that they're very attracted to me but that the age difference is too much and weird for them. I'm not blaming them exactly, just that it seems like the outlook for single guys in their late 30s and 40s is pretty bleak unless you're a multi-millionaire. I live in a somewhat rural area though... Is it any better in big cities?
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Uncle Bosie wrote:
Probably not. Look at the Amazon guy. He can buy everyone and still got a single mom.
A very convincing argument.
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Josh439 wrote:
Good looking spinsters are living the sex and the city lifestyle. They do
n'twant relationships.Oh, they want relationships, but they're casual use only to the men they want to relationships from. Short term stuff favors women, but men are the prize when it comes to committment. These women confuse their sexual martet value in these two different categories.
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Yeah Right, As If wrote:
Josh439 wrote:
Good looking spinsters are living the sex and the city lifestyle. They do
n'twant relationships.Oh, they want relationships, but they're casual use only to the men they want to relationships from. Short term stuff favors women, but men are the prize when it comes to committment. These women confuse their sexual martet value in these two different categories.
The older childless women are open to relationships but have higher standards, albeit sometimes unrealistic ones. They’re also happy or just used to their current lifestyle.
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They\'re everywhere wrote:
I am in my late 30s, and even at this age, it seems like 80% of the women roughly in my age bracket on dating apps are single moms. The other 20% are ugly spinsters. I am beginning to think the only real way to find a quality woman who isn't a single mom is to date women 30 or younger, but I'm not sure how realistic that is if you're 40+ years old? Even at my age, I've had multiple women in their 20s tell me straight up that they're very attracted to me but that the age difference is too much and weird for them. I'm not blaming them exactly, just that it seems like the outlook for single guys in their late 30s and 40s is pretty bleak unless you're a multi-millionaire. I live in a somewhat rural area though... Is it any better in big cities?
Are you thick? Dating is much better in big cities just based on numbers. Shocking you’re single …
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Someone who’s 40 and not a mom is an even worse situation
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If they are single mums, at least they've dated/married someone, and not every single mum is the same.
Yeah, you'll get a few that stay at home, and mope around, but others will have good friend and family networks, where the child(ren) can be off loaded for a night/weekend.
And they often have hot friends too, who will respect you for dating their friends. 😉
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Trump dated beautiful women much younger than him.
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Have you considered the married moms?
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Chick pulling dudes wrote:
Steve The Addict OFFICIAL -----^^^^^ wrote:
OP, you can be me and still pull the best 20 something's at 40. I aint even there yet. Unc still got it though, baby.
Yeah, listen to the guy who’s almost 40 and posting on letsrun constantly like it’s his job… that’s how you can tell he’s pulling the hot women. Because right? Like every time I’m about to bang one of the many hot 20 year olds, from Canada who you all probably don’t know, I definitely am like ‘babe, I just gotta go post about how cool I am on a running website, then like totally run a sub 14 5k cause that’s my easy pace, and then like I’ll totally be ready to bang. 20 minutes max and I’ll be ready to totally bang so hard.’
I've posted like 20 posts in the last 6 months. I can do what I want. How's working 40+ hours a week? Wow, what a waste of ones time and you're telling me I'm spending too much time here? That's hilarious. I'm sorry to hear youre familiar living in Canada, which should be the 51st state. I know it's hard to comprehend a sub 14 5k and a seven figure line when you're slow AF off 100mpw and still broke off slaving away all week. Don't be jealous that you're stuck in an undulating past peak relationship, shutoff and cant play the field. Or maybe you can play the field but cant get your preference. Good to know, projector. I really hope you can do well going forward. I'm not one to hold petty grudges but I will call out BS for accountability purposes. Good day to you mam, sir.
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