So imagine you're an average guy and you swipe right on 20% of women. If women swipe right on 1% of average men, that means it takes 500 swipes just to come across a profile that is possible to be a match. But the woman on the other end never needs to look through 500 profiles (Women get so many matches that they can fill up their date schedule without spending much time swiping). There's almost zero possibility of an average guy getting a date in today's world.
Imagine you are an average girl and every male swipes right on you. Of those only one or two want more than a one night stand. However every single one will pretend they are looking for a relationship.
So imagine you're an average guy and you swipe right on 20% of women. If women swipe right on 1% of average men, that means it takes 500 swipes just to come across a profile that is possible to be a match. But the woman on the other end never needs to look through 500 profiles (Women get so many matches that they can fill up their date schedule without spending much time swiping). There's almost zero possibility of an average guy getting a date in today's world.
and even worse, there is no such thing as a trad-wife!!!
So imagine you're an average guy and you swipe right on 20% of women. If women swipe right on 1% of average men, that means it takes 500 swipes just to come across a profile that is possible to be a match. But the woman on the other end never needs to look through 500 profiles (Women get so many matches that they can fill up their date schedule without spending much time swiping). There's almost zero possibility of an average guy getting a date in today's world.
and even worse, there is no such thing as a trad-wife!!!
So imagine you're an average guy and you swipe right on 20% of women. If women swipe right on 1% of average men, that means it takes 500 swipes just to come across a profile that is possible to be a match. But the woman on the other end never needs to look through 500 profiles (Women get so many matches that they can fill up their date schedule without spending much time swiping). There's almost zero possibility of an average guy getting a date in today's world.
and even worse, there is no such thing as a trad-wife!!!
Why have a trad wife when you can get a women who works AND does all the house chores … which is usually what happens anyway?
So imagine you're an average guy and you swipe right on 20% of women. If women swipe right on 1% of average men, that means it takes 500 swipes just to come across a profile that is possible to be a match. But the woman on the other end never needs to look through 500 profiles (Women get so many matches that they can fill up their date schedule without spending much time swiping). There's almost zero possibility of an average guy getting a date in today's world.
So imagine you're an average guy and you swipe right on 20% of women. If women swipe right on 1% of average men, that means it takes 500 swipes just to come across a profile that is possible to be a match. But the woman on the other end never needs to look through 500 profiles (Women get so many matches that they can fill up their date schedule without spending much time swiping). There's almost zero possibility of an average guy getting a date in today's world.
Your local running club, volunteer organizations, etc... Mix it up with people in the real world. Show them you have value and they will take notice. Stop the dating app nonsense.
Stay off dating sites as much as possible. Simps and the desperate are responsible for what you mention, even 2s, 3s, and 4s are getting 100s of messages/swipes. That has given them an inflated ego and the delusion that they can get a high value man in a relationship. Wrong. High value men will smash these average women but no relationship. 80% of the women on these dating sites are swiping on the same 20% of men, yet they wonder why a lot of those 20% of men are dating multiple people and won't commit. Not to mention these sites are full of single moms, massive L dating them. Approach in person, use common sense, and be confident. Get involved in clubs/activities/ etc. to meet people. Most of these single women are dying to meet a man "organically", saves them from lying to friends/family about how they met.
Skip the dating app and go to running club. If you don't meet someone, at least you got something out of it.
Should you ignore my advice:
Messages are more likely to get a reply than just a like, tailored messages more than just copy and paste - but how long do you want to spend. It takes about 500 messages for average Joe to get a conversation. About half of those conversations fizzle out in a day. For someone intelligent without any antisocial traits, for every 20 conversations, 10 will go for a few days - and about 1 will lead to a date. You are looking at 10,000 first messages for every date. It will probably take about 10 first dates before you find someone compatible for a relationship - if your strategy isn't just shoot for anyone who moves - 100k messages. Most simply don't succeed as there are not 100k women in your area on the app.
The only thing worse than a dating app is something like r4r, where women who can't get messages on the dating apps go. They still are just as selective, but they are the subset of people no one wants to message.
Basically - as an average man you are wasting your time and money on these apps. Go to running club. Try speed dating. Hell, join a d&d group.