My gf fabricated a story for no reason and then used it to try to start a fight with me. I have written her off as wife material

1. It’s mature and wise of you to prioritize honesty and respect for the person one is seeing. You’re correct that her actions were wrong.

2. It’s a good idea to have kept these feelings under wraps for 7 months. Otherwise you wouldn’t have been able to gratify yourself with a hot and sexy partner.

Sorry, but it’s time to dump your fake girlfriend.

Too bad that relating her fake story would require “a lot of typing,” you brought it up so tell us what it was.

Pics?

She sounds mentally ill and testing whether you would go with her schtick.

We really do need the story to give proper feedback.

Having said that, decent chance there is some BPD waiting to jump out at you.

Fighting on the second date? What a fairytale. GF or roster only, don't get more serious. Finally, I don't care how hot she is because she is a dime a dozen. They are everywhere.

All women are crazy, so this checks out. Is she a good person overall? Nice? Kind? She’ll likely do something similar again, when she does call her out and maybe she’ll stop. Everyone has something That’s not right about them, figure it out and see if they can move from it. The red flag generation is why only few will be married of this age!

Need some feet pics to determine the next steps

You strike me as untrustworthy, so no. You're probably being an idiot.

Oh, so you’re the kind of person who gets upset and combative in the face of a fabricated story too?

Maybe her schtick is compensating for OP’s modest stick.

Pics?

I'm shocked a hot, sexy woman is crazy. People like you putting up with it anyway is why they don't change

Only 2 dates in 7 months? I'd fight with you, too. It's Valentine's Day, man. Are you taking her out tonight?

Without pics it's really hard to give the proper feedback. If she's actually hot in your eyes I guess you should probably hold onto her until you find something better so you have someone to bone.

I dated a girl like that and I'm not afraid to tell my story. Okay, so she basically claimed she was in the National Guard version of the special forces, and has to go on missions every so often and that's why she could not agree to a second date for six months. I didn't believe her and when I asked to see some military ID, she said that if she showed me she'd have to kill me and I said, well, you could try to kill me, good luck with that, and the next thing I know everything goes dark.

When I woke up I was in her car and I said I still didn't believe her but I didn't want to fight. So she just said, OK, let's go for a drive. She has a yellow 77 Camaro that she says is actually a super-secret weapon of some kind and kept playing songs like 'Get Out' and 'Lose that Guy' over and over. I asked her to quit playing those songs and she said she didn't control the radio, the car did.

That's the part that was so obviously a lie but I kept quiet because I didn't want to get knocked out cold again. She was also really quiet then, and we just drove way out in the middle of nowhere. She dumped me out in the woods about 15 miles from town and said something I didn't really catch, 'something something ever again if you know what's good for you.'

So, yeah, I just don't think she's wife material.

I'll give a short version of it.

Basically, she texted me that she had gone to the grocery store that day, and while there, there was this big commotion where someone started yelling slurs and racial remarks towards a brown person and to get them out of our country, etc. I can't remember her exact wording, but the way she described it, it was very, very clear she was making it all up. Besides that, I have lived here for 11 years and have not once seen anything like that happen at all, ever, anywhere. It's a fairly blue community. I work at a university and have also known many internationals from all over the world here, and none of them have said they ever experienced that either.

I basically just ignored the text, and then when we hung out, she said I must be a right-wing anti-immigrant person since I didn't express outrage over the incident. The further proof she was fabricating it all is that she was much more focused on my reaction than the event itself. I don't want to make this political, but she is someone who will side with her political party of choice, unquestioningly, on every conceivable issue, and that along with some other things she said to me, it was clear she was trying to "test me" and see where I stood politically (I'm a moderate).

Anyway, like I say, to me, it seemed liked full blown looney behavior, abhorrent behavior for a second date, and I nearly stopped talking to her then and there, but I decided to give her another chance, with caution. She's been mostly good since, but I can't really help but feel like there's a screw loose in there. I have thought at times of how to quietly back away as a result but just haven't done so yet.