Obviously I am talking about giving it with her consent (would be interesting to mix into her drink, but wouldn’t do that!).
How did it go? Looking for ways to get her more activated. It’s always an excuse (“I have laundry I need to do”; “I need to make the kids lunch”).
If she had a bit more of the chemicals we guys have flowing, she wouldn’t give a sh*t about laundry when it’s time to ride.
It's only going to get worse OP. Hell, she will probably divorce you when the kids are older. After she takes half your money, the house, and custody of the kids her new life will begin. That new life will include (enjoying) riding the carousel, vacationing with the girls, and shopping. Skip getting married guys, GF or dating multiple women is the way to go.
Maybe you should help her with the laundry and taking care of the kids.
What's her love language?
Look, I have absolutely no comment on the OP‘s “plan” to slip his wife a Mickey Finn to make her delirious with passion, but the above advice is terrible.
Trading chores for sex is a loser move. Don’t do it. Women do not become weak in the knees because their man does laundry or dishes. If that were the case, the most beautiful women in the world would all marry dishwashers, or the owner of the local haberdashery.
No, the most beautiful women in the world typically marry men who have never washed a dish, changed a diaper, or done laundry in their lives, or have left those chores behind. In short, women marry - and gleefully spread their legs - for men they find to be sexually attractive. No woman thinks “Yeah he looks like he’ll dust the mantle piece, ugh I’m swooning.”
If you flit around the house picking up clothes, making sure your wife sees you putting the dishes away, she’ll know why you’re doing it.
Do chores because they need to be done. Not to get into her pants. Become the most attractive man she could hope to get (not just physically). Then she will demand you get into her pants.
Sounds like you don't have a job if you're trying to get a piece in the morning before the kids go to school, or during the day when she's doing laundry.
She doesn't need Vitamin V. She needs a guy that she finds sexually attracted to.
Just finished yanking my crank to a picture of Arnold Palmer winning The Masters. Gonna go again in 20 minutes to some footage of Arnie showing some kids how to putt.