Dating advice for a divorced 40 year old man

Use apps or sites to look for women in their 30s from countries like Ukraine and Romania. There is a surplus of single, family-oriented, attractive women in those countries. About 80% of the women from those countries are screwable and there aren't enough marriage-age men to go around because they died in the ongoing war or moved out of the country for a job (Brain Drain).

Look at how many women you see in this video:

I got married at 21, divorced at 28. And it’s been 7 years and I haven’t had a single date. I have travelled to dozens of countries and dozens of concerts and music festivals. And seen some of the world’s most beautiful places. I honestly can’t imagine why anyone would want to date after 30. Even less so at 40 or older. It’s time to make money and travel. We live in a massive planet and there’s so many beautiful places. Too many for one lifetime. Spend your remaining years visiting as many as you can. Don’t fall into the trap of thinking you need someone to be happy. You can make yourself happier than any woman can.

With respect, it's unlikely that you will find a woman at the gym who is single and near your age. If you want a younger woman, you better have some money or get really lucky and meet someone who doesn't mind age difference.

Dating apps, while annoying as hell, are really useful. You can throw eggs against the wall until one sticks

Depends on your game, your intentions and your standards. If you're a high value man who's 40 and can keep up with the hot 20s aged men you can pull the women that every man wants--the hot 20s who are intelligent and respectable. If you're more mid to lower range in attractiveness and finances, then go for only the single moms or less desirable women. If you're just a degenerate who has limited to no standards but some semblance of pull game, then may as well have a free for all.

Don't listen to stupid Steve. He's an idiot who does nothing in life but post here.

Just talk to some women and hang out with them. Anything that you might think to do, get used to inviting a lady friend along. You'll be able to tell within a few weeks if she's into you or not. If not then move on to someone else. The mistake a lot of guys make is sticking around way too long when it's clear she's not interested and then being butthurt about it. That's basically it. Don't waste your time with dating apps. Good luck!

this forum is pure satire

and no, dating apps are mostly useless

Haha Steve sits around hitting refresh until he sees my reply, just to give me a downvote. What a loser!

I was in same boat as you, now happily remarried. My advice is find the app most women actually use because tinder is virtually all catfish now and others are empty. When you get a date, your priority is to have a good time yourself. If she’s boring or not having fun, give it up. Good luck!

Take time to dig out yr personnel and mental dirt first! Women love a sensitive reasonable sweet guy with balls, who knows his own sh*t. Most man don’t even bother to question themselves, this scares the hell out of the nice women.

NEVER ask out / date a woman

1. That you work with

2. Goes to the same gym as you

3. In the same running club as you

4. Lives in your apartment complex

5. Any woman that you see on a daily / regular basis

When things go bad, you do not want to be in the awkward situation where you cannot avoid seeing someone.

I took an international vacation by myself for the first time last year. While it was enjoyable, the whole time I was there I wished I could share the experience with someone special.

At your age you can get all the women you want hanging out in a church. You are fresh meat to them. You will be banging one by the third date. After that you will be eating home cooked meals in her house and you won't even be going to church anymore.

Trying to do the math here. I got divorced at 41. Remarried at 45. Met my wife on two different apps in a really random story (I was in Tx, she was in NY).

The apps are great. Don't overcomplicate it. The goal is to present the best version of yourself. They are just a screening mechanism that are pretty efficient. Find the app that is for you.

Good luck.

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explore your interests, classes, new sports, groups. meet people with common interests.

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Read any woman Murray Rothbard and you'll be ok.