She is shoving you away. Would be better if she was direct, but the result is the same.
Read the question. That's not what I'm asking. I'm asking you why does she want to date someone on a lower level? Or is she lying? Why lie? And why use this confusing lie?
She is shoving you away. Would be better if she was direct, but the result is the same.
Read the question. That's not what I'm asking. I'm asking you why does she want to date someone on a lower level? Or is she lying? Why lie? And why use this confusing lie?
Yes, she's lying to you. She's trying to let you down easy.
Several women have said this to me and used this reasoning to end the relationship.
What does it mean?
Is it reverse psychology?
Is she being honest? Just low self esteem? Even so, wouldn't she want to date up and not down?
I don't get it. I'm 38 btw. Engineer.
In all honesty it means that she feels you are too smart for her and you make too much money for her. For whatever reason, some women just want to be with lowlifes who are low income and have some sort of drug/criminal history.
I don't think they are lying. I think it's insecurity. Insecurity means you want men to date women who are better than you because you doubt yourself and have low self worth.
In all honesty it means that she feels you are too smart for her and you make too much money for her. For whatever reason, some women just want to be with lowlifes who are low income and have some sort of drug/criminal history.
I don't think they are lying. I think it's insecurity. Insecurity means you want men to date women who are better than you because you doubt yourself and have low self worth.
It means you're dealing with younger women with high opinions of themselves at the very least. If they're still single when they're past 30, that tune will change.
That said, you're more than enough as is. We all are. A relationship not starting or not working out is too often framed as a lack on the part of a certain party. More often than not it's just a mismatch. This goes from men and women.
It means you're dealing with younger women with high opinions of themselves at the very least. If they're still single when they're past 30, that tune will change.
That said, you're more than enough as is. We all are. A relationship not starting or not working out is too often framed as a lack on the part of a certain party. More often than not it's just a mismatch. This goes from men and women.
Not sure I understand your first paragraph.
Are you saying she is lying?
Why use THIS weird lie?
Are you saying women are incapable of actually being honest and telling a man the truth about why they don't like the man? They can't just say you are too hairy or too short or too muscular or too serious or too old-fashioned or something else?
It means she's not attracted to you so she can see herself being tempted by other guys and cheating on you, which makes you better than her in terms of making a commitment to the relationship, holding up moral standards. That's it.
It means she's not attracted to you so she can see herself being tempted by other guys and cheating on you, which makes you better than her in terms of making a commitment to the relationship, holding up moral standards. That's it.
Finally an actual answer! Thank you!
Now, I don't know if this is the right answer or not, but you are the 1st and only person who has actually tried to answer my question. I'm guessing you are also female and you understand how the female brain works.