Grey hairs = death sentence (for dating)?

Yes, it's over for you.

it's definitely a turn off for most women, but you might be able to make up for it with a good personality

How could you let this happen?!

What you need to do is to surround yourself with very desirable people. Then you will appear to be some happening dude, having a lot going on for you, and so much so that these desirable people still find you worthwhile regardless of your gray hair.

You'll come across as the bomb.

And don't try to hide it, accent it, if you can.

Not just dating but even at work in terms of getting promotion etc.There is a subconscious bias aganist old age.They will ignore you and look for someone who appears younger and fresh.The answer is dye your hair.Do it properly, religiously with quality expensive dye not the cheap stuff from boots.

Shave your head and hope you don't look like Bezos.

I guess it depends what's under the grey hair.

It didn't hurt me at all. I've dated a few women in their late 20's early 30's.

They like my grey hair- they say it's "distinguished". But then, I'm also a gentleman who knows how a woman wants to be treated.

I've been told I'm good looking, so that helps.

Try learning how to be a "real" man. Once women get to be about 27/28 they no longer want the big, tough, dumb guy.

Grey hair is better than no hair, imho.

I'm in my 50s with some thinning but very little grey. Two neighbors my age are almost completely white hair, but very thick and full.

This!

Confidence, fitness, and an aura of success is more attractive to high quality women. The experienced gentleman also attracts smart women with their own careers and earnings rather that some little bimbette seeking to leach off of a sugar daddy.

Exude confidence

Stay lean and have some muscle definition.

Dress and groom yourself well - this is super important! Nothing is sadder than a grey haired man schlepping around in a baggy hoodie and basketball shoes like a college boy plus it makes you look older.

In clubs, parties, and office gatherings, show refinement by drinking straight liquor, classic cocktails, or wine. Don't act snobby but, it sets you apart from the boys drinking beers or mixing booze with energy drinks. Added bonus, you don't lose a prospective date because you are leaving her to piss every 20 minutes.

Learn to dance! Women love it and will line up to get on the floor with you. Most young guys won't because they are too self-conscious and you just made yourself the most desirable dude in the place.

Show respect and interest in her - this will distinguish you from the himbos pressuring to close the deal by last call.

I was balding before I reached 30 and that's a tougher sell than a few greys. Dating wasn't an issue because I owned it, kept my hair trimmed very short, and did the things listed above.

Yes, sadly, it's over. The priesthood is always looking for some fresh blood, though, so you should probably just look into that since your dating life is over before it really begun.

I live in upstate New York as well runn...trust me, you ain't good looking!

Did it ever start for you?

You will succeed when you realize that women don't choose men the same way men choose women.

Career success, confidence and how you make a women feel, vastly outweigh how much you resemble a male model.

Confident men with successful careers and below average looks, who are dating women with above average looks, are everywhere.

Get some confidence, make something of yourself and stop worry about things that matters to no one but you. Once you do, you'll notice a staggering difference.

The down votes are funny. It tells you those are losers you have no luck with women because of things other than hair on their heads.

I never had bad luck with women but I noticed that when I hit 50 I had more luck with women in their 30's.

Confidence is huge. I never thought of myself as confident but I've been told that it comes through when I walk into a room.

I'm short (5'8) and weight 140 (I weighed 137 when I graduated from high school in 1977).

I guess I'm good looking- I've been told so but that's subjective.

I think the main issue that I said before is that women change as they mature.

I've had 28-34 year olds tell me that they think guys in their age group are helpless little boys who don't know how to treat a woman.

You said it- grooming and how you conduct yourself.

Funny because I like bourbon and an old fashioned when I go out. Young women think that's so cool.

HAHAHAHAHA that was good. I have a sense of humor and can laugh at myself so- good one. LOL

This ain't the place to be asking about the female persuasion, son.

Would you date a chick who's going gray? Only if your fetishise milfs

At that age it signals to women you carry beta seeds.

Bro, do you seriously want to date a person who is that petty? Nevertheless, many find it to be attractive. The silver fox can signal maturity, wisdom and higher earning status.

A lot of young women are totally into zaddies!