Girl I'm dating sometimes watches TV for an entire day... Struggling to accept this...

maybe i'm weird wrote:

Been dating a girl for about 3 months. Overall it's been good, but one of the things I've been really struggling with is the amount of TV she watches. As far as I can tell she watches multiple hours of TV almost every day during the week, and there have been multiple times since I've started dating her that she watched literally 8 hours of TV or more on a day off, even when it was relatively nice weather outside. Like, one time she sat and watched 3 Harry Potter movies in a row, followed by TV, and another time I know of she watched some dating reality tv show the entire day, like literally 8 or 10 hours.

I know we all waste time and occasionally have days where we don't really accomplish anything, but for me, sitting on the couch for that long would be cruel and unusual punishment, and I have honestly never in my life watched a movie and felt like I wanted to immediately put on another movie and watch it all the way through. Also, for me, it's not just a sense of differentness between us, but I honestly feel contempt for this kind of behavior if I'm being honest. It seems like such a waste of life and super unhealthy.

Am I being overreactive? Too judgmental? Please let me know.

Rojo's left nipple wrote:

Been dating a guy for about 3 months. Overall it's been good, but one of the things I've been really struggling with is the amount of time he spends running. As far as I can tell he runs for over an houtlr most every day during the week, and there have been multiple times since I've started dating him that he literally ran 15+ miles or more on a day off, even when it was relatively nice weather outside. Like, one time he went and ran 3 5ks in a row followed by a crosstraunung session, and another time I know of he did loops around the block literrally all day.
I know we all waste time and occasionally have days where we don't really accomplish anything, but for me, running for that long would be cruel and unusual punishment, and I have honestly never in my life ran five miles and immediately wanted to run five more. Also, for me, it's not just a sense of differentness between us, but I honestly feel contempt for this kind of behavior if I'm being honest. It seems like such a waste of life and super unhealthy.
Am I being overreactive? Too judgmental? Please let me know

maybe i'm weird wrote:

Rojo's left nipple wrote:

Been dating a guy for about 3 months. Overall it's been good, but one of the things I've been really struggling with is the amount of time he spends running. As far as I can tell he runs for over an houtlr most every day during the week, and there have been multiple times since I've started dating him that he literally ran 15+ miles or more on a day off, even when it was relatively nice weather outside. Like, one time he went and ran 3 5ks in a row followed by a crosstraunung session, and another time I know of he did loops around the block literrally all day.
I know we all waste time and occasionally have days where we don't really accomplish anything, but for me, running for that long would be cruel and unusual punishment, and I have honestly never in my life ran five miles and immediately wanted to run five more. Also, for me, it's not just a sense of differentness between us, but I honestly feel contempt for this kind of behavior if I'm being honest. It seems like such a waste of life and super unhealthy.
Am I being overreactive? Too judgmental? Please let me know

Does that comparison actually make sense in your mind? Exercising 1hr/day vs sitting on on the couch doing nothing for 10? Those two are the same in your mind?

maybe i'm weird wrote:

Been dating a girl for about 3 months. Overall it's been good, but one of the things I've been really struggling with is the amount of TV she watches. As far as I can tell she watches multiple hours of TV almost every day during the week, and there have been multiple times since I've started dating her that she watched literally 8 hours of TV or more on a day off, even when it was relatively nice weather outside. Like, one time she sat and watched 3 Harry Potter movies in a row, followed by TV, and another time I know of she watched some dating reality tv show the entire day, like literally 8 or 10 hours.

I know we all waste time and occasionally have days where we don't really accomplish anything, but for me, sitting on the couch for that long would be cruel and unusual punishment, and I have honestly never in my life watched a movie and felt like I wanted to immediately put on another movie and watch it all the way through. Also, for me, it's not just a sense of differentness between us, but I honestly feel contempt for this kind of behavior if I'm being honest. It seems like such a waste of life and super unhealthy.

Am I being overreactive? Too judgmental? Please let me know.