Couple of wrinkles: I'm generally attractive to women so their receptive body language makes it easy enough to strike up a conversation like you would with anyone while out and about. But I am pretty particular about any woman I'd date now in my 30s (lots of drama and chaos in my 20s) so a lot of these women don't really light my fire.
Couple of wrinkles: I'm generally attractive to women so their receptive body language makes it easy enough to strike up a conversation like you would with anyone while out and about. But I am pretty particular about any woman I'd date now in my 30s (lots of drama and chaos in my 20s) so a lot of these women don't really light my fire.
Couple of wrinkles: I'm generally attractive to women so their receptive body language makes it easy enough to strike up a conversation like you would with anyone while out and about. But I am pretty particular about any woman I'd date now in my 30s (lots of drama and chaos in my 20s) so a lot of these women don't really light my fire.
How do you break the ice?
I literally talk to them like I'd talk to Bob the cashier at the grocery store or anyone else. "Hey, how's it going? Any fun plans for the sun?" (my vague recollection from a conversation I had this past summer)
Personally, a good-looking woman isn't enough for me to be interested in actually going on a date with her. I have no idea when I talk to these ladies if there's anything there that will make me feel any meaningful attraction. Shooting the breeze with them like I would anyone else just opens the door to see if there's any chemistry. I go into those interactions with no expectation other than I'm talking to another human being. If there's a romantic vibe and it's mutual, it's weirder if you don't ask for the number than it would be to ask for the number. It's like magnetism.
Another way to put it is when you hear someone say in a movie or a show regarding an affair, "I didn't mean for this to happen... it just did." Well, you're looking for that, but the good version of that where you're both available with no major baggage.
Couple of wrinkles: I'm generally attractive to women so their receptive body language makes it easy enough to strike up a conversation like you would with anyone while out and about. But I am pretty particular about any woman I'd date now in my 30s (lots of drama and chaos in my 20s) so a lot of these women don't really light my fire.
I forgot to mention going to a smaller show for a musical artist you're into. I went to go see an indie band I'm into play not too long ago with a female friend (not dating) and there were a lot of single women there with "the eye"... if you're into some band or artist you really like that no one else you know is into, not a bad way to have something in common right off the bat.
It gets loud in most venues so you might need to grab a quick bite, drink, or coffee so you can chat a bit easier ;)
Couple of wrinkles: I'm generally attractive to women so their receptive body language makes it easy enough to strike up a conversation like you would with anyone while out and about. But I am pretty particular about any woman I'd date now in my 30s (lots of drama and chaos in my 20s) so a lot of these women don't really light my fire.
I forgot to mention going to a smaller show for a musical artist you're into. I went to go see an indie band I'm into play not too long ago with a female friend (not dating) and there were a lot of single women there with "the eye"... if you're into some band or artist you really like that no one else you know is into, not a bad way to have something in common right off the bat.
It gets loud in most venues so you might need to grab a quick bite, drink, or coffee so you can chat a bit easier ;)
No troll - I bet it helps if the lady you’re with is attractive. Women like to pursue men who appear “pre-approved.”
Couple of wrinkles: I'm generally attractive to women so their receptive body language makes it easy enough to strike up a conversation like you would with anyone while out and about. But I am pretty particular about any woman I'd date now in my 30s (lots of drama and chaos in my 20s) so a lot of these women don't really light my fire.
You forgot the most obvious one that provided as much opportunity as all the ones you listed combined (including the indie concerts)…
Expert on womem here. Tinder works well, primarily if you're attractive. Your job especially if there's a lot of women around. The bar on a Friday or Saturday night. One of my specialties that's not an obvious one is that I'll go to a mall/shopping centre on a weekday and the people working in the stores--a lot of them are young women plus many good looking ones.