My girlfriend has a victim mentality. Not saying her life is or has been easy or anything, but she seems to have the mentality that her life has been harder than everyone else's and that nobody else deals with crap too. I've come to notice she doesn't really seem to have much ability to "roll with the punches" of pretty normal life, like fairly small things happen, and she'll go on and on about them, like things I would either not even mention or only just mention and then move on from. Several times now I have tried to relate some experience of hers to something in my life that was either the same or very similar to kind of be an example, and she always immediately brings the attention back to her and how hard things are for her.
I find this all to be extremely childish and unproductive. There are a lot of great things about her, but I've honestly been thinking if this attitude doesn't change, I don't really see someone like this as any sort of long term partner. Feels like I'm tending to whining baby a lot of the time, not sharing my life with an equal adult.
Anyone have any advice on people like this? I have tried to get through her some, but nothing seems to be working...