Here, we'll try this one more time.
Everyone agrees that a plane moves forward because of its engines, right? This much is obvious.
When it's moving through the air, up in the sky, it's because of the engines. When it's on the ground, it moves because of the engines - those little wheels don't have any power going to them. They just spin. Can we agree on that much?
From there, let's say the plane starts to move on the treadmill (which hasn't started yet). Is it the engine or the wheels pushing it forward? The engine, of course. The wheels are just spinning. Once the plane gets fast enough, we don't even need the wheels any more.
Heck, to visualize this one, let's pretend the wheels aren't even on the plane. Let's just say the plane is hovering above the ground. Can it still go forward? Yes, because of the engine. Will the treadmill affect it? No.
Now let's pretend we're hovering above the ground and start to move forward. Now what if we hung down off the bottom of the plane and touched an extra wheel to the ground. It's gonna spin like crazy, but that's all it will do.
The treadmill has no effect. The plane can still take off.