Are these red flags?

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Make up a better story.

Definitely. lying about ones profession is a big red flag. I am glad she got away safely.

I don't believe you are a track athlete. Think you must t be hobby jogger at best.

Well sure, when she ordered the desert you had to know the meal would be expensive. Even a small desert isn't cheap, let alone one the size of the Sahara or Gobi.

I'll never understand why you mediocre level guys can't just accept your status in life and be happy. It is what it is. Jesus taught you that acceptance is what he wants from you.

Should I pray that I make more money?

Ever consider that her thinking you work in Diversified Investments or whatever made her think it was no big deal to spend lots of $$$ ? Sure, she doesn't seem great, but you may have egged it on.....

If this is a true story, you both are pathetic.

Totally made up story. We all know that if you are posting on LetsRun then you make six figures and would have no trouble with a $300 bill. The real question is, why are you cheating on your supermodel wife?

Don't run up your credit card.

Sounds made up, but if you're telling the truth, you shouldn't have lied about your job.

I think she put you in an awkward spot when she asked how much money you made, but at the same time I think it's totally fair and reasonable for women to ask about this because men lie about it all the time to try and impress women. Just be honest. If she asks, just tell her truth. You don't want to build a relationship on lies and deceit.

And when you told her you were a stock broker that sounds like a high income job, so she probably assumed you could afford an expensive meal. Frankly, she did nothing wrong here given the circumstances.

According to the Hallmark Channel, she would have ultimately been more impressed that you were following your dream.

I think the tip off is the expensive wine...

I suspect this is BS, but let's use this for some dating lessons.

1) Not sure if this was a first date or not, but never do dinner on a first date unless you have spent some time with this person already. Say you met in person and talked for a while and got good vibes. If you met online, meet for coffee or a drink. This is not to be cheap, but practical. What if you just do not like this person? Coffee or a drink could be 30 minutes and you are out of there. Dinner is going to be north of a hour (depending on the type of place). Why spend time with a person that does not interest you?

2) I assume the OP chose the place. If so you know what your financial constraints are so pick accordingly.

3) You lied dude. She is the one who dodged a bullet. Let's say dinner went great and she agrees to go back to your place. She is probably going to figure out quickly you are not what you claimed. Folks do not lie if you are wanting anything beyond a quick lay.

Hobby Joggers have full time jobs.

1. She sounds materialistic and not very pleasant (especially the bit about calling you names).

2. You should've simply told the truth. Imagine if this went further - you'd have to tell her anyway and it would look v. weird!

3. How did you settle the bill, dare I ask?

Let's hear more details about this (fake) bill. Exactly what did you get? What about her? What kind of steak, wine...? What restaurant?