How common is it for attractive women in 20-35 age range to not be on social media?

Very common.

The problem is that you will never hear about it.

Not common at all. The only reasons I could think of for such a thing are some kind of mental problem and/or an intense interest that isn't glamorous on social media. Like archery or badminton, a collection of obscure things, etc. In that case she might just be on social media to interact with others into those things.

I'd say that this person is very, very wise to avoid "social" media. I quit Facebook in Oct. 2018. That was one of the best decisions that I ever made. I maintain a minimal presence on Instagram, but I don't post at all. I am somewhat active on Twitter, because it seems to be the best source of news headlines and sports/politics commentary.

Hate to break it to you, but the rest of the USA would add distance running to this list.

I hope you are not going on her social media account. Hopefully you don't have one either. That's the first place that the police check before the guy from 20/20 is at your door.

FB is a joke right now. If you post at the wrong time the algo screws you and your posts don't get shown in News Feed. It used to be organic and would stay at the top based on likes/reactions.

Now, even if you have good content, it won't be shown to all friends, or only shown to certain friends. So you'll get the same likes/comments from the same friends (i.e. if you have 250 friends you'll get likes/comments from 10-12 friends total).

Same with Insta; it is a huge popularity contest.

FB was always a joke. It was always about, "Look at me! Look at me!"

Anyone interested in that sh!t has serious issues. And yes, I have no problem recognizing that most people have serious issues.

Why do you ask?

I think you have a very skewed sense of reality.

Not having social media is very sane and reasonable; given the attention theft, the exacerbation of mental health crises and the mass psychosis social media has caused.

I'd guess it's probably close to 0% of "attractive" women in that age range who don't use it at all.

I haven't had a smart phone in four years and I still get on my old facebook once in a while on my desktop; though I don't post anything or do anything with it, really. I also get on youtube and reddit a good amount, occasionally comment on youtube stuff (if youtube and reddit count).

Literally almost every adult in America carries a computer in their pocket. You're telling me that good looking 20-35 year olds use it exclusively to text and call? Maybe browse a little wikipedia or news sites? Yeah right.

I'd honestly be surprised if there was a single person in that group in this country that used zero social media.

agree. I don't know what the purpose of this question is, but what I can say is that if you're interested in meeting and dating attractive women, you should have one or more social media accounts. this doesn't mean you have to use them very much (and you probably shouldn't, since it's generally a waste of time). the only reason I got instagram in the first place a few years ago was because girls I was meeting kept asking me for my instagram.

Ha -- great post, AWi20-35AG!

I agree. I am a 40 year-old man and very much on FB (personal updates and chatting, like most people) and Twitter (quasi-professional use and animal videos, like most people). On Instagram I post some old-fashioned photography (remember Flickr?) but not lifestyle/biographic posts like most people; I'm too old and too used to using Facebook for that purpose.

I know some women who avoid all of these, and this is probably more common than among men I know. My girlfriend is 32 and never started with Instagram, Twitter or Snapchat. She had a Facebook account, but used it so little she found it made more sense to close. (To the OP, I'm not sure what you think attractiveness has to do with this question, but she is very attractive by conventional standards.)

Maybe your posts are just uninteresting.

Possibly, I have thought that, so am working with those marketing to see how to fix them.

I was replying to this post.

By your same line of thinking then you could apply your concept to TV shows and youtube. They are providing content for the people that are interested in watching that content. So let them post whatever they want. It's a little more than just your dumb line of " look at me" ...

There are plenty of people who if they stopped posting on FB and instagram, I would be pretty pissed off..

Wow. I post a real example of a girl that fits this, and it gets deleted

Well look, bottom line is that marriage is a business for women. There's millions of women who would automatically marry me even if they weren't attracted to me because i have something they want or could provide them and can fulfill their personal individual desires. Sad but true. This potentially makes me mentally ill. But I'd hope for everyone to be truly loved and not left wondering if it's conditional "love" because you are fulfilling business inspired checklists from a selfish person.