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Doggyways wrote:
How bad is that
Depends. But either way it can be rectified!
I was 22 when I had my first kiss. There were plenty of times in college where I could have had my first kiss, I am just prude and wanted it to be someone who I really cared about. I did find it embarrassing at the time. However, the women I was attracting were below what I was willing to settle for - and that was because I hadn't invested in myself to become the man that would attract those women.
I worked on becoming a better person myself. For me, that was reducing my sarcasm and offering more compliments to EVERYONE. I made a lot more friends. I then found reciprocation when I found a women I was interested in. This only took a month for me, but it was hard work. I am grateful for my change.
Focus on yourself! If you are genuine, hard working, sociable, and are not afraid to get what you want then everything WILL fall into place.
But what do I know - I was just you 2 years ago.
Good luck! Keep us updated.
Doggyways wrote:
How bad is that
Ummm since when is it bad for girls to kiss other girls? David45 fantasized about kissing boys and the mods loved him anyway.
I was in the same boat as you and I bet there are a lot of people like this on here. It's just not talked about in society as it is considered super embarrassing.
I'm now happily married with kids.
My advice: 1) Don't play it up too much in your head. You don't have to be perfect or say the right thing to get women to like you. Don't put them on a pedestal.
2) The guy who said this had good advice.
Focus on yourself! If you are genuine, hard working, sociable, and are not afraid to get what you want then everything WILL fall into place.
3) Don't make this too big a deal. I'm not saying you can't have high standards but I was in your boat, yet acted like kissing a girl meant I was going to marry her and she had to be perfect. There are no perfect women, but you can kiss lots of women in your life.
Good luck.
Welcome. You'll fit in well here.
Don't be a high inhib beta. If you see a pretty girl and you want to kiss her, do it. Best case she likes it and things go somewhere. Worst case she doesn't like and and she gets a little mad and life goes on. Either way, no one is going to press charges over a kiss or anything like that. Just go for it.
Doggyways wrote:
How bad is that
It's actually smart. No Covid.
put that in your tinder profile. There’s a subset of women that are into this kind of thing. They’ll be all over you.
Jeez I got made fun of pretty badly when I didn’t kiss a girl until Freshman year of high school….