Travelling is now mandatory if you want to date a girl

Maybe she likes to travel and wants a partner that also likes to travel.

Steve The Addict OFFICIAL -----^^^^^ wrote:

Women who are traveller's are likely to be working in the sex industry in some capacity. It may be onlyfans, as a sugar baby, a stripper or a full blown escort. They don't have time or the dedication to work (they're lazy), so they take the easy way out.

Whaaaattaf?

Maybe it is mandatory if you want to date that specific girl.

But travelling is a good thing in general. Far too many Americans don't. Why have you never travelled? Where in the world do you want to go?

Private jet: 15-50k each way

Hotel resort best room 7 nights: 7k

Drinks and room service: 500 per day

Entertainment expenses: 5k-10k

Gambling profits or expenses: (-200k) to 2.6 million

I'd prefer to go to Mexico and stay at the five diamond hotel or Vegas at the Red Rock Casino but I'd entertain other options for sure.

busybusy wrote:

Maybe it is mandatory if you want to date that specific girl.

But travelling is a good thing in general. Far too many Americans don't. Why have you never travelled? Where in the world do you want to go?

Yes I'm actually shocked at the amount of people whove never traveled. They're stuck in the same boring place all their lives. It's as if they don't realize there's a whole big world out there. I'd recommend travelling to everyone, at least a few experiences in your adult youth. Life is worth living that way.

I bet the date would have gone better if you were more charismatic.

John__ wrote:

I think you hang out and associate with the wrong people. I would definitely change the intelligence level of the people you associate with because they sound extremely retarded.

Build a home and spend your time improving and enjoying it? Beautifying it? No i will send my money abroad for a fleeting transient “experience”.

People like different things. I don't like or need to remodel my kitchen or add a small room to my house. So why not spend some disposable income flying to Germany and legally driving over 120 mph on the Autobahn?

And BTW, this comes from someone who has no interest in visiting most countries and some states. What the hell is there to do in Mississippi, Alabama, Turkmenistan, Laos, Burkina Faso, or Belarus? F*** those places, I'd rather stay home!

John__ wrote:

I think you hang out and associate with the wrong people. I would definitely change the intelligence level of the people you associate with because they sound extremely retarded.

Build a home and spend your time improving and enjoying it? Beautifying it? No i will send my money abroad for a fleeting transient “experience”.

Lol @ this loser.

Meh... wrote:

First date with this girl. I gave her my instagram.

- No travelling pics?

- Have you ever traveled or something?

Yeah ive been to Alaska when i was 15 does that count?

Never heard from her again.

Not everyone is a match. This person likely values travel.

You do not.

It’s not a match, simple as that.

Traveling signals two things: 1) you are spontaneous and 2) you have money. Both of which are attractive to women.

They couldn’t care less what you look like if you can take them to the Maldives so they can have you take pictures of them. Notice I said of them, not with them. It’s an important subtlety.

Anyways, it’s not all girls are like that. I would presume she’s around 25 and looking for a sugar daddy.

Ghuufdcjj wrote:

Steve The Addict OFFICIAL -----^^^^^ wrote:

Women who are traveller's are likely to be working in the sex industry in some capacity. It may be onlyfans, as a sugar baby, a stripper or a full blown escort. They don't have time or the dedication to work (they're lazy), so they take the easy way out.

Whaaaattaf?

Ignore him. He’s a moron.

depends on where you're travelling to wrote:

John__ wrote:

I think you hang out and associate with the wrong people. I would definitely change the intelligence level of the people you associate with because they sound extremely retarded.

Build a home and spend your time improving and enjoying it? Beautifying it? No i will send my money abroad for a fleeting transient “experience”.

People like different things. I don't like or need to remodel my kitchen or add a small room to my house. So why not spend some disposable income flying to Germany and legally driving over 120 mph on the Autobahn?

And BTW, this comes from someone who has no interest in visiting most countries and some states. What the hell is there to do in Mississippi, Alabama, Turkmenistan, Laos, Burkina Faso, or Belarus? F*** those places, I'd rather stay home!

I can't speak for the others but Laos is one of my favourite places to visit. It's stunning, the people are lovely and the food is amazing.

You don't need a date on the Flor-bama line. Plenty of girls there to drink a bushwhacker with. Why bring sand to the beach?

busybusy wrote:

I can't speak for the others but Laos is one of my favourite places to visit. It's stunning, the people are lovely and the food is amazing.

Though when I visited in the early 2000s some Laotians were still not too happy about being napalmed in the 60s and 70s so some Americans chose to sew Canada patches to their backpacks :-D

This is because people (women especially) use being “well-traveled” as a proxy for social status.

“Log you say” Yeah I’ve been all over Europe and spent some time in Asia.” You might as well tell your date you’re a good upper middle class boy.

People also equate travel with being interesting. But being well-traveled does not one more interesting. It’s just another form of consumption and status signaling.

busybusy wrote:

depends on where you're travelling to wrote:

People like different things. I don't like or need to remodel my kitchen or add a small room to my house. So why not spend some disposable income flying to Germany and legally driving over 120 mph on the Autobahn?

And BTW, this comes from someone who has no interest in visiting most countries and some states. What the hell is there to do in Mississippi, Alabama, Turkmenistan, Laos, Burkina Faso, or Belarus? F*** those places, I'd rather stay home!

I can't speak for the others but Laos is one of my favourite places to visit. It's stunning, the people are lovely and the food is amazing.

I guess this shows that even if the OP liked travelling, he might not be a good fit for a girl who likes travelling (and that's assuming that career, politics, religion, smoking or alcohol use, etc. aren't dealbreakers).

I never liked most tropical places. My parents took me to Florida as a kid, and the miserable heat and humidity far outweighed any joy that I got from Disney World.

Going to Alaska, Colorado, and Iceland were awesome. Going to Hawaii, Florida, and Bali were "meh" at best.

People who fixate on traveling typically have emotional problems. Travel provides a temporary escape from reality. This is like what drug addicts and alcoholics do. It obviously doesn't work beyond the temporary thrill, so they keep traveling. It's the path of least resistance.

At home you have to deal with life. That requires strength of character.